Ok. My boyfriend, me, and one of my other friends went to a party. During the party the other friend kissed me. My boyfriend walked in and saw us, but he didn't see the guys hands holding my head where I couldn't back away. My boyfriend ran out of the room, what do i do? I tried to explain but he wouldn't listen to me.
2007-02-02 08:25:34 · 8 answers · asked by jscifres02 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok I think you all must know this. I was talking to someone and the guy turned my head around and kissed me, holding me head. Today when I tried to apologize again my bf said "If you didn't want it, then why didn'y you atleast try to stop him"
2007-02-02 08:37:20 · update #1
Your mistake for not stopping the guy. You could have easily pushed away as he was coming in for the kiss. There may not be anything you can do. He's made up his mind. Even if you didn't want it, you sure didn't try hard to stop it.
2007-02-02 08:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by Groovy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!! You seem to be in a very difficult situation here! Just talk to your friend and ask him what on earth made him kiss you. Then try to get him to talk to your boyfriend (or your ex or whatever) for you. Have him tell him that it was his fault and he's the one that kissed you. If that doesn't work then just try talking to him yourself. Just hold him back and try to explain. Maybe he'll listen. Maybe you could get another friend to talk to him for you. Maybe a girl this time too. Well there's not much more I can tell you here. So good luck!!!
2007-02-02 16:38:00 · answer #2 · answered by PrettieLeah12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you want to and let the other guy kiss you or was it 100% forced? Did he just suddenly grab your head with both hands and put his mouth on your? If it was forced, then you need to press charges. The only thing you can do about your boyfriend is to tell him. He has to convince himself.
If you let the other guy kiss you after a whole drawn out event, then you have some apologizing and reconciling to do with your boyfriend, assuming you want to continute that relationship.
2007-02-02 16:33:33 · answer #3 · answered by Elisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you act like you didn't want him to kiss you or did you kiss back? If your BF saw you not pulling away you're going to have a lot of explaining to do. You should have punched of slapped the guy so others could see it and defend you. give your BF time to cool off and explain it again to him when he is calm.
2007-02-02 16:31:17 · answer #4 · answered by dynamicduo79 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my first question for you would be, "did you press charges on the friend who forced a kiss on you?" if the answer is no, that is why the boyfriend won't listen... he doesn't believe it wasn't what he saw. so, my advice is if your boyfriend is important enough to you, then say audious to the "friend" which ps... i would have done the second he forced the kiss on me
2007-02-02 16:31:47 · answer #5 · answered by Jeanette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how he kissed you...If it was a peck on the cheek, thats one thing, but it sounds like it was a little more than that...and if you didn't really want it to happen, you should have stopped it before it started...Your bf has a right to be mad...
2007-02-02 16:30:27 · answer #6 · answered by Terry C. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can reassure you if that's what happens no way it was your fault! If he won't talk to you maybe one of your friends will have better luck.Good Luck!!
2007-02-02 16:33:41 · answer #7 · answered by Steve-O 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what happened and take the dumb ### friend iwth you@!
2007-02-02 16:28:46 · answer #8 · answered by mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋