ok so i liked a guy for like about a year. then he started to like one of my friends.....and they have been going out for about a month or two and i am friends with both of them but more the boy then the girl. he completly broke my heart (i havent liked anyone since him but i never got completly over him either) but for this week he has been looking at me like he looks at my friend (his gf) and it makes me soo happy unti i remeber how much he hurt me but my love for him overpowers how much he hurt me and i dont know whats going on.....i am so confused.......oh and little past detail.....he knew i liked him because i told him.
2007-02-02 08:12:08 · 8 answers · asked by K-LA 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok so i liked a guy for like about a year. then he started to like one of my friends.....and they have been going out for about a month or two and i am friends with both of them but more the boy then the girl. he completly broke my heart (i havent liked anyone since him but i never got completly over him either) but for this week he has been looking at me like he looks at my friend (his gf) and it makes me soo happy unti i remeber how much he hurt me but my love for him overpowers how much he hurt me and i dont know whats going on.....i am so confused.......oh and little past detail.....he knew i liked him because i told him. oh and even though it wass hard i told my friend he could go out with him becasue i wanted him to be happy
2007-02-02 08:18:06 · update #1
Okay, so he might of known you liked him, but did you do anything else but tell him? Did you show many signs, did he shows signs.? Some guys dont know what they have until it is gone, and believe me this is soo true. This is probably what is happening to him. This girl he is with now, is probably not what he thought she was, then see's you, and see's you the way you see him, and is just as confused as you are, because he has this girl that he liked, but messed up with you. I'd talk to him about it, but make sure his girl is at least 50 miles away at the time lol, just incase she finds out you talked to him about something like this. You dont want to hurt anyones feelings, you just want to find out the truth. And if he hurts you again, KICK HIS ***, he will know then, how much he hurt you. :)
2007-02-02 08:17:58 · answer #1 · answered by aim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I was in a similar situation. And it still hurts when I think bout me and ex...rite after we broke up we got close again, flirted, then he backed off, then flirted again, backed off, etc. It was like a circle. And I always fel for it and flirted back. I think u need to realise u deserve better-any guy that deserves u wouldnt just move onto one of ur friends. Sounds like hes confused too and that he and the friend wont last long. U should try to avoid him a bit more-by being around him u'll only think bout him more. Try to move on and see who else is out there for u.
2007-02-02 16:20:17 · answer #2 · answered by Lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you told him how you feel, he may look at you like that because he maybe likes you a tiny bit even though your friend is his girlfriend. Tell him your not comfortable with you being around your friend the way he is. He just might understand.
2007-02-02 16:18:12 · answer #3 · answered by 3120johnsons@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he knew that you liked him during that year, and he liked you, than he would have asked you out. i dont hink he does, i think you should just let those looks slide. but...he also might acually have started likeing you, even though he has a gf. so id say wait and see what happens between him and his girlfriend. if they brake up, than go for it
2007-02-02 16:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by Women Pleaser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt be mean or anything to him or her, i would just be yourself like you have been, if he has been looking at you like he looks at his gf, he may be into you too but just dont want to cause any disruption or fights so he leaves things alone like you do, just wait it out, if they go further into their relationship, it might of been meant to be but if they break up, be sure to be the first in line!!
2007-02-02 16:20:20 · answer #5 · answered by americansugar80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably thinks that u'll sleep with him. Leave him alone, he hurt you once, he'll hurt u again. and if his intentions are just to use you (which it seems like it cuz if he liked u before then he would of been with u already), then u'll be hurt again.
2007-02-02 16:19:14 · answer #6 · answered by juicylady817 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
way off limits! break the triangle and hang out with some other friends!
2007-02-02 16:18:19 · answer #7 · answered by justsayin... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is dating your friend = OFF LIMITS!
2007-02-02 16:15:57 · answer #8 · answered by caralinar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋