i kept telling him no but still he did it and then two days later he broke up with me. i felt dirty. :( please help
2007-02-02 08:02:27 · 19 answers · asked by kitty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's sexual assault and it is still a crime
2007-02-02 08:06:19 · answer #1 · answered by frenchie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hate copying and pasting but this is the definition of sexual assault.
Sexual Assault (SA) - Any unwanted sexual contact or attention achieved by force, threats, bribes, manipulation, pressure, tricks, or violence. It may be physical or non-physical and includes rape, attempted rape, incest and child molestation, and sexual harassment. Sexual assault is a crime of violence, anger, power and control where sex is used as a weapon against the victim.
To help yourself be able to move forward and NOT feel dirty for something you had NO control over you should probably go speak to someone about it.Talking to family and friends does help but be selective and talk to those who you are comfortable with and who you trust implicitly.Also speaking to a counsellor or therapist helps as well.
If you feel like a victim then do something about it,report it to the police.Even if you don't press charges it'll still be in his record and if he does it again to another woman she will have more of a foundation and a leg to stand on because of you.Sometimes that's all it takes is the 1 voice to just whisper it in the right ears.
Or you can keep walking through life as you are...
I Wish You Peace of Mind and Body & I am sorry what he has done to you....
Blessed Be,
M.G
2007-02-02 08:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by Malia G 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is it rape? No, not technically. Was he wrong? YES. Should you probably tell someone you trust about what happened, definitely. It may be uncomfortable to talk about, but if you are confused about what happened you should seek some kind of counseling to help sort out your emotions. You can decide then what actions to take, pressing assault charges and so on...
You may also want to examine your beliefs...if your going to be in relationships...you should be aware of yourself, your feelings, and your understanding of sexual relationships and what exactly you are and are not ready for. This way you can handle/avoid these situations better...and... it never hurts to know self defense! : )
2007-02-02 08:17:48 · answer #3 · answered by Melis~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Rape is when you have sex or touch someone sexually without that persons permission, or forcing them into it when they dont want it. Holding someone down and having sex with them and them struggling to get free because the dont want that would be rape. Sorry for the example. lol hope this helped
2016-05-24 05:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by Cheryl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At minimum it is sexual assault. Prosecutable by law. If you said no and you feel violated, contact the police. Or a school counselor... Your parents... Tell somebody or you will live with the feelings inside of you forever. They don't just go away. They make you bitter and angry if you don't deal with them. Best of luck!
2007-02-02 08:08:04 · answer #5 · answered by Grá 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Rape is the act of forced penetration of any bodily orifice (vaginally, anally, or orally) or forced cunillingous, involving violation of the survivor's body and psychological person.
The specific legal definition of rape varies from state to state.
You have been sexually assaulted. Please contact a rape crisis center.
2007-02-02 08:08:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is assault!
Dont listen to stupid people who tell you your being a tease
When you tell someone no then they should know betetr than to go on doing it
2007-02-02 08:09:27 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Then, it would be sexual assault. Rape always involves the penis. Get that loser reported, stat.
2007-02-02 14:21:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ya it is, even kissing forcefully is sexual assult, you can press charges.
2007-02-02 08:06:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, absolutely it is. Nobody should tyouch you there against your will.
2007-02-02 08:49:14 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be. You should report him or at least tell your parents EXACTLY what happened.
2007-02-02 08:07:35 · answer #11 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋