Have you ever taken back an ex girlfriend/boyfriend after they had cheated on you?If you had did it work out?

Question

If you had did it work out in the end?will it work out?

Answer 1

I have not and would never take someone back after they cheated on me. In my opinion, once a cheater, always a cheater.

Answer 2

My boyfriend that i was so madly in love with did cheat on me and we broke up and in the end he wanted me back but i made him beg for a year until i took him back. i think it was good for me to wait so that i could really forgive him for what he did and forget about the whole thing. but we have been together for a year now and it's been good, i have no more problems with him cheating or any thing. Really i give him all the problems but i guess when they say once a cheater always a cheater is not true! So i believe that you can take back an ex that cheated.

Answer 3

You really need to ask yourself what kind of cheating the other person did. There are certain degrees of cheating, and some are worse than others. (Ignore those who argue that cheating is cheating, and that all cheaters will always be cheaters). For instance, I myself am a reformed cheater. I learned from past mistakes, and I would never cheat on my partner again.

So, like I said, you would really have to think about what type of cheating the person did: Was it a stupid mistake with a little kissing involved (forgivable), or was it a night of wild, passionate sex (unforgivable)? Did the person go to dinner with an ex and forget to mention it (forgivable if they give you the details and a good excuse), or did they go to dinner with an ex and f**k their brains out afterwards (unforgivable)?

Answer 4

I did, Yes, It's working out. I mean when we got back together it was hard but now it's getting better. Now we are planning on moving in with each other. We also talking about marriage more than we use to. It's really base on do you and the other person really want it to work, just like you want it to work. The only problem is you have to learn how to trust her again. Do you think that she won't do it again? If you think that then I think you should try it again. Because me and my b/f is working, does not mean it will work for you and yours, you never know until you try. If you feel like it is worth it, then get back with her.

Answer 5

I took my ex back and no it was not the same - it took so long to try and trust him again. I woke up one morning and realised I could forgive him but not forget. I didn't want to live each day wondering if he would do it again and decided to end it and find someone else. As it turns out he got married a few years later and has cheated on his wife many times.

Answer 6

I have taken an ex back after cheating. It didn't last long at all, mainly because I didn't trust him and the same feelings weren't there anymore, and he still came across as a player, so I broke it off at that point.

Answer 7

I havent officially taken an ex back, but we have started talking about getting back together. We are taking it slow and it seems like things might work out. It has been like 6 years since we have talked and we have both changed. I would say just to start out talking and see how that goes. Good luck!!!!

Answer 8

You can never take them back, no matter how much you love them or want them back. You'll never be able to trust her again and honestly I don't think she'll ever respect you if you do take her back. It'll happen again, whether it's a month later or a year later. You can't change someone and if someone cheats on you then they never loved you anyway, no matter what they said. You deserve better.

Answer 9

Yes I took back my boyfriend. I had skipped classes one morning to surprise him and wake him up in bed. When I got there I found him in bed with another girl. I remember saying something and then leaving right away. Later that day I went back to his house to give back everything that he ever gave me or anything that would remind me of him. I ran into the house, threw the stuff in his room and ran out but before I could get out of the door he grabbed me and begged me to take him back. I did but it took a long time before I could trust him again but I knew he loved me and I loved him. We ended up married!

Answer 10

It didnt, in fact when i went over to see him to talk about making it work he just made me feel like ****.


Dont take him/her back, if they really wanted to be with you they wouldnt have ****** up, even if they use the line "it was a mistake, everyone makes mistakes!" Ignore that. Cheating is a terrible teriiiibllllllllle thing.