i mean i am at collage and i have friends but they all are men , i feel more comfortable being with them that being with girls besides the girls i know are like "WANNA BE" and i just wanna have fun is tha bad?????
2007-02-02 07:51:08 · 50 answers · asked by Talis 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No it is not bad.
I would be a tomboy if I am in a group of men. I don't mind.
2007-02-02 07:54:23 · answer #1 · answered by Jagger Otto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I was the same way. Still am, even though I'm married. Do you like the show My Boys as much as I do? No, it's not bad to hang out with guys more than girls. It's more relaxing than the "get-prettied-up" fun girls have, which is OK sometimes. I always noticed that, with female friends, you had to meet their standards in everything: especially in dress and the guys you date. Girls/women are often competitive with each other. And they backstab and talk about each other all the time. I have one female friend that I talk to on a regular basis. She's not "catty" like a lot of women I know.
2007-02-02 08:02:23 · answer #2 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not bad because you are learning that you can have friendships with men without sex. So the relationships you have with these men are positive and will help show you what you really want in a committed relationship. That you know that friendship is important. I would however suggest that you try to develop a relationship with another female. It is healthy to have friends from both sexes. Not all girls are like that wanna be girl, there are nice ones out there.
2007-02-02 07:56:43 · answer #3 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way is it bad! I had almost triple the amount of guy friends than I had girl friends. I loved going out with all the guys and drinkin with all the guys. They always said I was 1 of the boys. You get all the scoop on what they say and do to other girls. I loved it because Im not a very girly girl. Im more down to earth than the next *****.
2007-02-02 08:02:48 · answer #4 · answered by Crash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you're in college, you should have had "fun" in high school. No there isn't anything wrong without hanging out with guys, that's your preference. All us girls out there aren't "wanna be's" when you keep thinking like that, of course that's all the women you're going to attract. It's always good to have at least one girl friend, she'll understand you way better trust me. But have fun with the boys. Good luck hon!
2007-02-02 07:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be everyones friend. If you continue this, then you will be just one of the boys. Maybe you should make an effort to find some female friends. Give it a try. Wouldn't it be nice to have 1 special guy, instead of a bunch of buddies. You definately will be changing your mind when you mature.
2007-02-02 07:58:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No
I always had more guy friends than girls
But when u settle down u usually have to get rid of them u know so that sucks cause u will be left with like 3 girl friends thats it.
2007-02-02 07:53:52 · answer #7 · answered by TOokieTook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not bad at all. I have always been more comfortable around men. Girls can be so fake and judgmental or superficial. Don't worry about what anyone else thinks. Do what makes you happy.
2007-02-02 07:53:35 · answer #8 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all, in fact I would say that a guys kind of girl is much more fun to hang out with! It is much easier to be yourself as a guy when you are around a girl who is more comfortable hanging out with guys.
2007-02-02 07:58:21 · answer #9 · answered by G Dub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a good judge of character? If you deem them all to be good guys then its fine. Personally I feel that there is too much drama between girls. Its like way more straight forward with a guy. theres no like "Smiling at you in their mind and saying b**tch get out of the way"
2007-02-02 07:54:35 · answer #10 · answered by yewieh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not bad...the first person's response was pretty funny...
But no, I think it's cool...you just found your crowd...have fun. Life's too short to worry about what other people may think.
BTW, it's ironic that you wrote "i mean i am at collage..."
I'm sure after reading it you'll know why....
Well, have fun, be safe, and good luck!
2007-02-02 07:55:14 · answer #11 · answered by allthree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋