We broke up cuz he was planning 2 get married and have kids and were only 17 years old. Also im stuck betewn him and my best friends cuzion who should i pick .Me and my EX have been dating 4,1 month ,and i just meet the new boy and im all ready in love what should i do????????????????????
2007-02-02 07:49:44 · 12 answers · asked by Indiabby.! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Neither. It sounds more like you need to live some more. I can't say how you feel but I highly doubt you love either of these guys, a month is barely enough time to see if you can tolerate a person possibly like but love come on now. It sounds like your in love with the idea of being in love and want the attention. Love yourself, get your education, and when the time is right you'll find the one for you.
2007-02-02 07:57:38 · answer #1 · answered by Just D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your ex were only dating for one month, and your 17 and hes talking about marriage and kids, I would say move on! Ecspecially if he was pressing the issue, because he should respect your opinion. Im not saying you should pick your friends cousin, but if you like him you should probably go out with him a couple times, and keep your options open. But, I wouldnt recommend settling down with someone that fast at 17.
2007-02-02 15:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by larissaxxlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you can NOT be in love with a guy you just met...that is just lust. Honestly I would just take a "break" from your EX. And reall think about what YOU truly want and see what happens from there. Or maybe you're just getting tired of the old relationship and you really do need someone new. I don't know...but all I have to say is think about what YOU want.
2007-02-02 15:54:21 · answer #3 · answered by sexylilplaya17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is a weirdo for life planning when you've only been together for a month and you are just as weird for falling in love with someone you just met and probably don't know anything about him, and instead of worring about boys you need to stay in school and learn how to spell!
2007-02-02 15:54:20 · answer #4 · answered by TEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, one month and wedding plans? He sounds insane and clingy, it is a good idea to have broken up with him. There is no telling how much further he would have went with his crazy. Also you are both 17, go out and have fun.
2007-02-02 15:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by Toga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U shouldnt settle down because u obviously arent done experimenting. You should only settle down when u have done everything you ever wanted sexually anyways cause the other type u can do with ur man like travelling.
2007-02-02 15:52:35 · answer #6 · answered by TOokieTook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all may i say you are not in love, youre childish, your ex sounds like a creep, you should pick neither of them and be a freakin kid, because you act like one,
2007-02-02 15:53:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to focus on school not relationships just go with the flow but keep your head in the books
2007-02-02 15:53:27 · answer #8 · answered by drightchristy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is saying (a man who knows a womans mind is a man who knows the world)
2007-02-02 15:56:00 · answer #9 · answered by Tomas T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont rush things if he loves u he will take things at your pace and not force u into anything u dont wanna do and if he dont understand that dump him cause he is being cruel.
2007-02-02 15:55:03 · answer #10 · answered by richard f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋