i had just found out that this guy only likes me b/c he wants sex and i'm still a virgin and i'm happy that i am one but he wont date me unless i give it too him. i know that i should walk away but i need advice to tell him that there is more to me then sex
2007-02-02 07:44:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You already said you know what to do.
Unless you just want sex from him and are willing to give your virginity to him for nothing, I'd advise you to tell him to bug off as well.
He already knows there's more than sex. You don't need to tell him that. If he's putting this ultimatum out toyou, then he's just playing a game to to pressure you into having sex with him.
You, being a virgin (and I presume wanting to stay that way until you can give it to someone special), have especially more to lose from this.
2007-02-02 07:53:33 · answer #1 · answered by Elisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what you say to this guy, he's already told you upfront what he wants. I will tell you from personal experience, that there is more to you than sex, will fall on deaf ears. He's just giving you the possibility of maybe dating afterwards as a bait and switch to get what he wants. He obviously knows you are a virgin and has no qualms about treating you below your personal standard/value. Plenty of guys like that exist but there are plenty of guys who aren't and those are the ones that will value you for who you are and not because they want to have sex with you.
I say "Walk Away" from this guy. He's not worth your time.
2007-02-02 08:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by Michaela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-13 07:17:52 · answer #3 · answered by bustamante 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there isnt..just give it up
2007-02-02 07:49:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm..he's a loser! stay away from him!
2007-02-02 07:48:22 · answer #5 · answered by cantthinkofauseridsohereitis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋