my boyfriend has been a little anoying these days
he doesnt leave me alone not even a minute
i meen i love him and all
but i need some room for myself and some time to be with my friends
hes always around
he didnt use to be like this
why is he being like this??
how should i tell him to give me some space
but i dont wanna break up with him
and i dont wanna make him feel bad about it
weve been together for almost 3 years
ohh im 18 years old
2007-02-02 07:37:35 · 13 answers · asked by MoNiCa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let him know that you just need some time to yourself. Do it gently so he doesn't think that you are breaking up, but be firm. Assure him that you love him, but you miss your friends and need to spend time with them too. Good luck.
2007-02-02 07:42:17 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you should just tell him, if you two are comfortable enough with each then this shouldn't be a problem. He should understand and his feelings shouldn't be hurt. Though by telling someone this, it's kind of like saying you're smothering me. You may not want to break up now, and it is for you both to have time to hang out with your friends. But I don't know if you feel smothered maybe you should take a break from him. Good luck hon!
2007-02-02 07:43:14 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Every young woman your age should have her space and her friends....I am glad you realize that although you love him , you need your space.
Although I am quite older than you, I will tell you how I handled a similar situation,
I planned out my week....I told Bob ( fake name) that on Monday's I had to spend quality time with my sister (and I made myself do just that ) and on Wed, Thur. and Friday, I was working out at the gym ( and I did just that ) and I got to see Bob on Tues. Sat and Sun ( if I wanted too.) He was not happy, but I did it, got closer to my sis, and got in shape! You need to take control of your time, and don't be afraid to do that.
2007-02-02 07:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him that as much as you love being with him that you sometimes also enjoy spending time with your friends as he should do as well. If he does not understand this, then maybe he needs some growing up to do. Good luck to you!
2007-02-02 07:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is feeling left out of your life.Take some time with him one day, and then with your friends the next.
2007-02-02 07:40:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if i were you i would ask him to hang out with his friends for a few hours everyday, that way you get some time to be with your friends. you know what i mean.my friends boyfriend is just like that and she told him the same thing i just told you and it worked, he understood.i hope it works for you. good luck. :-) kaitlyn a.
2007-02-02 07:45:04 · answer #6 · answered by Kaitlyn A 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
explain to it him. let him now you'd like to hang out with your friends sometimes without him being around. (as harsh as that sounds.) you shouldnt lie to him, be honest with him. maybe like the next day ask him if he wants to do something.
2007-02-02 07:42:59 · answer #7 · answered by Em 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him you care about him and that sometimes you would like to do thinds alone by yourself. dont use the word space, saying space is never good.
2007-02-02 07:41:45 · answer #8 · answered by andy a 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well- just dont answer ur phone when he wants to hang out & tell him uve already made plans with friends
2007-02-02 07:41:55 · answer #9 · answered by mari d 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just be honest and tell him! He might not realize he's crowding you! Just be sincere about it!
2007-02-02 07:42:26 · answer #10 · answered by 80srock 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋