we were coworkers this girl had a boyfriend. She was giving me signs that she like me. The way we both look at each other and don't look at each other. The way she talks to me in a sweet way. Finding ways to be around me. Smiling at me as she walks by. And then this happen she spray some cologne on me and said I smell hot. I said to her since you gave me a nice compliment I wanted to give you one I said to her I enjoy your company and she said that's so sweet.Ad I walk away. She ask my coworker friend if I like her. He said "yes" And she said I think he's cute. Now her boyfriend treats her bad sometimes. Saids mean stuff to her and makes her cry coming into work. He saids he loves her and she saids he loves him from what I hear from their friends. I started geting feelings for this girl. I told her I had a crush on her and she said "that's so sweet" and gave me a hug. Then she ask what time I was geting off. And that was it.Next day at work I payed no attention looking at her. So she walk behind me pated me on my head and said "hey" and I said hey back. And both of us went back to work. Her boyfriend made her cry coming in the next day or so. So I gave her a friendly card the next day she came in. I sign it and put your friend. She told her coworker friend that I like her and her friend ask me If I like her and put me on the spot and she was right behind me when I said no I just want to be friends. She walk past me started crying and got her friend and talk to her in her ear in front of me. Then she said to me the card was sweet thanks and she walk away. But the truth was I do like her, but friends come 1st right? Anyways couple of weeks past by I couldn't help the way I feel about her anymore so I gave her a crush note. She walk away with it and read it and show it to her coworkers. And said to them that I like her. Next day she look at me and gave me a big smile. I was talking to her coworker friend and she came near me and said "what you don't like me anymore and walk away fast and then look back and smile at me. As she was walking past me when she said that I said to her I never said that and that was it. Christmas eve I gave her a glass angel for christmas and note with it. After I gave her this gift her friend told me she was having a bad day with her boyfriend. She put the glass angel in the office and the manager goes up to her and ask where did you get that? She tells him that I gave it to her and I treat her different then other girl employees. And saids to him that she only wants to be friends.So the manager call me in the office and told me that she has a boyfriend and your coming onto her and she only wants to be your friend and you make her feel uncomfortable at work. And he said lets keep this between us. I left work early that made an excuse up that I was sick. Yeah I was sick. Heart broken sick. She came in the next day and we ignore each other that day.And haven't spoken since that happen. She quit her job last week, because one of the female managers were mean to her.I got to school with her. We have a class together. This is what happen last week at school in class. When she saw me she seem very happy to see me. She used the teacher to get my attention. I pretended I didn't care and we ignore each other that day. Next couple of days she's wondering why I have ignore her. I heard her and her friends talking about me she said to her friends "why is he ignoring me, I was nice to him." Next day at school I look at her and said hey to her. And she said "you still work at that job?" And I said "yes" she said "bless you." And that was it. The next day she was asking people for gum in the class and nobody had any and I think she knew that. She whisper my name and ask me if she can have a piece of gum. I can gave her a piece and she said thanks and I said your welcome. So the next day she ask me again if I still work at that job and I said yes. Why? She said cause when I quit I heard that girl was going to quit. The girl was the one who being mean to her. She ask me if she still works there and I said she does and that was it. So as you can see
I been leting her talk to me at school. Just to see if she was playing me or not. I'm still not sure, but i'm thinking she's not playing me what do you think? I think I really like this girl. I can't get her off my mine. And I still don't know how she feels about me. In the end she still has the boyfriend. Any advice on what to do? I pretty much did my part. I told her how I felt and she didn't return any feelings when I gave her that crush note. She could be confuse and scare just like I am right now. Could I be in love. I refuse to hear it, but it might be true. We only knew each other for a couple of months and never really spend sometime together. Just little talks here and there. Any advice?
2007-02-02 07:27:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i think you should just move on. this girl is a *********.
Why mess with this girl? She's trouble and only cause you more drama in your life.
there's plenty of girls who would go for a guy like you. You just have to put yourself out there.
Move on and stay far away from this lilttle girl.
2007-02-02 08:01:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off I think you'll be glad to know it isn't love, you don't know her and she doesn't like you. If she was tired of her boyfriend she wouldn't be with him, she knows you like her yet she's still with someone else. She doesn't care about you, continue to be her friend. You had your chance to tell her upfront, but you let the moment pass and you wrote her a note. So she's probably still a little bitter from that. If you tell someone how you feel and they say "That's sweet" that means they are not into you. I used to say that to guys all the time when they used to give me compliments and tell me they liked me, or had a crush on me. It was letting them know in a nice way that you never had a chance, sorry. Be her friend and move on emotionally, good luck hon!
2007-02-02 07:38:34 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's unfortunate that she's having boyfriend problems and your giving her some comfort that he isnt and that makes her feel good at times and confusing at the same time. she needs a friend, not a guy trying to pursue her while she's in a relationship.
stop doing the 'i got a crush on you stuff'. she knows you like her. let her work things out with the boyfriend. just tell her if she becomes available in the future, would she please consider you and in the mean time you'd like to be her admirer. :) peace
2007-02-02 07:34:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's playing you. As much as it hurts, some girls like to flirt with guys just to say that they can get their attention. She may be using you to make her feel better about her bad situation with her boyfriend. If think if she liked you as much as you like her, that she would get out of her bad relationship and move to you since you have told her your feelings.
2007-02-02 07:36:35 · answer #4 · answered by Angela F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 03:45:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl just wants attention....move on, there are plenty of other girls out there. You don't need this kind of unecessary drama in your life.
2007-02-02 07:36:41 · answer #6 · answered by thisalln 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show her that your there for her. she knows that you like her, theres no need to hide it anymore. but show her you care and that its not right how her boyfriend is treating her. don't force yourself into her life, let her come to you. just be friends. just show her you care and you'll be there for her if she needs it.
2007-02-02 07:40:49 · answer #7 · answered by Em 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont date co-workers.......ever!
2007-02-02 07:34:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YO DUDE NEXT TIME PLZZ DONT PUT AS MUCH!!!! DUH
2007-02-02 07:30:10 · answer #9 · answered by $-mo,mo-$ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋