i have a new boyfriend and he wants that I make the love with him. i told him is so quick but he didnt understand. what can i do?
2007-02-02 07:25:30 · 8 answers · asked by THE BEST 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you feel it's too quick, then it is. Always go with your gut feeling--it won't let you down. If he loves you, he will wait. If not, then he was not worth keeping.
2007-02-02 07:32:51 · answer #1 · answered by bellegurl17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's your new boyfriend then it's not making love bc you two are not in love. If you told him that it was too quick and he didn't understand then he's only in this relationship with you for 1 reason and that's to get the booty....dump him and find someone who will respect your wishes.
2007-02-02 07:31:19 · answer #2 · answered by beauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that he doesn't understand.....it's more he doesn't care. If he's your real boyfriend he would listen to what you have to say...and that is "no". Remember if he forces you to "make love" to him....that could be considered rape. Make sure you are ready and comfortable before you give in and make love to him...it is something that both parties should want and be ready for. If he keeps on insisting and you are not willing....then you should go find a real boyfriend!
2007-02-02 07:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to be honest with you, if he can't wait then maybe you should re think if you really want to have a relationship with this guy sorry. My boyfriend was really good about waiting and he was my first was really scared but in the end it was like always thought it would be. So I think you should wait.
2007-02-02 07:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by jessica gonzales 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Repeat, one of the best methods to get something in someones mind is to be a "broken record" repeat your self untill they understand and if he doesn't time to get a new boyfriend.
2007-02-02 07:30:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything until you're ready and you'll kow when you are. If he starts pressuring you then kick him to the curb and find a man who respects you.
2007-02-02 07:28:51 · answer #6 · answered by kungfumasterzod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you shouldnt rush. if he really likes you he'll wait till your ready. if your not ready and you do most likely he'll leave you right after.
2007-02-02 07:31:09 · answer #7 · answered by gansito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till you feel ready, otherwise it just wont feel right.
2007-02-02 07:31:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋