Let's get the facts out first.. i am not a little kid, I don't need no lecture on "You should focus on school," but i do need someone's help and opinion... plz..
I've been dating this girl about almost 8 months...
I can honestly say that, I truly fell in love with her when we turn 6 months...
the thing is... it keeps getting harder.. slowly.. our relationship has crumbled..
the first two months... i would see her.. about 4 times a week.. then the next two months.. i started to see her.. just.. once a month.. (What a big change huh?)
and... they don't let her go out anymore...
if I had not volunteered at her school.. honestly.. I would only be seeing her.. once every 2 months...
now.. her mother took away her phone.. and we cannot talk anymore.. we can only chat... but only for a little while...
it keeps getting harder... i'm tired of waiting..
i don't want to wait anymore.. I want to be with her!
i think it's time I let her go? as much as it hurts me...
what's your opinion? help!
2007-02-02 07:24:39 · 10 answers · asked by betodemise46 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How does she feel about u? I mean it might hurt her a lot. Esapcially now that she doesn't have her phone and can't go out she ll find her self completely lonely. Also let her know that it is really hard to continue the relationship when u barely see each other. She might try to make some changes in her schedule ot talk to her parents. Don't try to let go so soon, unless u feel like u don't have same feeling towards her. Also a lot relationships start perfect and partners see each very ofter, and later on the separate more. So you are not the only one who goes throguh this. if u see that this completely not working out for u and it only is getting worse then u might have to break up with her. Just don't rush into this decision. Plus always remeber u are young and u will defentely find someone if anything, but that someone might not be her.l
2007-02-02 07:43:04 · answer #1 · answered by Loco 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe letting go isn't the answer?
It becomes rather obvious you do like her, unless ofcourse it is only lust, which is sometimes rather hard to differentiate from love.
I think they best thing to do it either take a break or just split up temporary, view other options. Maybe you both just need personal time to resolve problems.
If you guys are meant to be and in true love, then eventually you two will find your ways back to one another. If not, then you two were better off being friends.
2007-02-02 07:31:43 · answer #2 · answered by Epitaph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her parents seem to be making it more difficult for her to see you, can you say why? I feel your relationship with her is diminishing because it has not had time to grow. You two have not been able to spend much time together. The only advice that comes to my mind, is for you to go and have a talk with her parents. Maybe if you present your case to them and show them that you love their daughter can be trusted, then maybe this would be the way to convince them to allow her more time to spend with you. This was just a guess, hope it helps. Good luck to you!
2007-02-02 07:40:18 · answer #3 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does her mother not like you for some reason or is she just strict? Maybe her mother just feels like she is not ready for a serious relationship and does want her to concentrate on other things. That's a mom for ya. I'd move on.
2007-02-02 07:29:36 · answer #4 · answered by Angela F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 19:36:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you should cut your losses, if she really wants to see you she will find a way, but I suspect that she doesn't mind not seeing you. Move onto to someone who has more time and interest in you.
Good Luck.
2007-02-02 07:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by jessie1985 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that the relationship is just too hard to continue then maybe you should end it and find someone who you can see and talk to.
2007-02-02 08:44:46 · answer #7 · answered by Michael K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be different if you did not know the circumstances, and her parents is getting stricter with her. If you really care for her, you will be their for her. And every moment you do see her, it should make you happy! I guess her parents are trying to get her to concentrate on school, My thought is if you love her, you will be their for her.
2007-02-02 07:33:33 · answer #8 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are u guys?? Maybe you just need to come over to her house, introduce yourself to her parents, and ask for their permission to date her.
2007-02-02 07:29:45 · answer #9 · answered by marisanj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go......unless she cant or hasnt tried to help the situation any.
2007-02-02 07:31:53 · answer #10 · answered by Nolegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋