2007-02-02 07:24:28 · 49 answers · asked by whyowhyowhysocomplicated 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES!
2007-02-02 07:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by soren 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Yes, absolutely. Aside from legal issues, where the 21 year old would be guilty of statutory rape (regardless of whether or not there was consent if there was anything physical between them), she hasn't had any of the life experiences which come with adulthood. At these young ages, 6 years difference is HUGE, the difference might as well be 25 years. As a person matures this difference in age becomes more manageable, but there is almost no chance a relationship of a 15 and 21 year old could last......and this is even putting the fact that it would be illegal aside.
2007-02-02 07:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by ●Gardener● 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really have know couples dating thaose ages...
Whats more important is how mature both are...
In many cases the 21 year olds hay have hardly dated as was shy or had strict parents or had glasses etc...
And the girl may have had lots of boyfriends and be more experienced them he is.
The age of concent is 16... Whats a few weeks or months going to matter?
As for what would they have in common?
Music, cinema, mates, parties... other then the alcohol its pretty similar.
Would he be interested in anything other then sex?
Sure... people are mates accross that age gorup often so in sos younger sister. So just as likely to couple up and girls mature faster then boys...
hell he may have been the virgin.
What matters is if the guy has a history or pucking virgins and keeping a score card, treating girls like dirt, being manipulative etc.
If none of the above and hes nice and caring and fun then he will be the same with the girl...
Likewise what is she like... a simperling nienve idiot...
or the fiesty tomboy in school how can wack any guys who mess and a top student.
Whos to say guys her age are any better and not all trying to loose their virginity or bang the girls whilst doing as much dope and alcohol as possible or part of a gang doing muggings and drive bys.
the only real concern is how responsible he is...
ie is he aware she aint 21 and therefore should not be drinking or hanging in many or the bars he does and that parties maybe too much for her and keeping her off booze.
And taking serious responsiblity for contraception...
IF they are sexual...
Whos to say they have got further then second base?
Many 15 year olds are dating.... if the average age of loosing virgintity is 16 that means half under 16 are already sexaul... maybe this 15 year old is already far more experienced then the guy.
Bear in mind some here are in the US which has the silly notion of a age on concent of 18 hnce their huge teen pregnancy rate as thats unrealisitic.
As said Ive been clubbing since 16, there were often 15 year olds on the group and now Im older... Ive seen people of these age gorups coupling up.
If its not to be it will just fizzle out on its own...
Quit worrying...
2007-02-02 08:11:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
In a year or 2 its a different story.
Do the WISE thing forget it for now! Wotever strong feelings r there! Both of u gotta protect urself from gettin into trouble. The situation is a minefield.
Gotta say a mature question to raise before anyone does owt they might regret. The guy is at serious rise of trouble by getting involved. Will the guy wanna put himself thru some real s**t if it goes wrong? E.g. He falls out with the girl/her parents/or anyone who knows about them.
P.S. I once got proper pestered by a 14 yr old with a crush. Its hard if the guy is desperate for a relationship n getting bad advice from 'mates' (Notches on the bed post etc.). U gotta b big!
2007-02-02 08:47:46 · answer #4 · answered by corkie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's too young for a 16 year old guy.
21 year old should be more responsible in this situation. Its very serious.
2007-02-02 08:29:14 · answer #5 · answered by charlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes bt all means 21 is 2 old for a 15 year old
2007-02-02 12:08:31 · answer #6 · answered by smallweemigit 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES!!! OMG!!! Yes. I am 15 and everybody told me a seventeen year old was too old for me and I just blew them off. I was stupid because I thought he is a good guy he wouldn't do anything to hurt me, but you are ages away. He will use you. If it is real wait til you graduate and you are legal. My now ex pressured me into doing things I regret. He could have raped me, but lucklily I knew when to stop. No mater what they sasy or what yout think, you are a girl and he is a man. This is also very illegal too.
2007-02-02 07:29:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that is totally wrong, seeing that she is barely even a real teen and she is also underage so its illegal and u will be charged for rape even if it were not. But if her mom or dad or teacher could u know there goes ur future for what a 15 yr old girl if u reallly life her u could wait till she is atleast 17
2007-02-02 07:29:42 · answer #8 · answered by TOokieTook 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes definitely. When I was 17 I had a 22 year old boyfriend My dad didn't speak to me for 8 years. A guy that age justs wants sex and to control you, don't you find it odd that he wouldn't be with someone his own age considering he can go to a bar and drink. He is insecure!!
2007-02-02 07:30:09 · answer #9 · answered by Daisy Mae 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-02-02 07:29:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yesss! on top of the fact that your a minor and he already passed the first adult age, which is 18, there is a 6 year difference. that maybe if you were 18 it didnt matter much but your 15. dont go there!
2007-02-02 07:28:59 · answer #11 · answered by ♥ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋