I really like this guy he's really charming and like a gentleman, he opens doors and treats me right. I'm unsure if he likes me too, we have been out a few times for a drink and had lunch today. is there any signs i can look for? He dressed up today when we went out, but he said it wasnt for me, im not sure if it was or not. any ideas please!
2007-02-02 06:52:28 · 23 answers · asked by Tiamat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You say, "I love youuuuuu", and if he says, "I love you tooooo" then you know he loves you.
2007-02-02 06:55:40 · answer #1 · answered by IveBeenThere 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, as it's early days I wouldn't mention the 'L' word, he may have been embarrased to admit he dressed up for you, so don't put any pressure on or you may scare him off! Take things slowly and if he does fall in love with you he will tell you eventually. Just enjoy your time together and see how things progress, good luck!
2007-02-02 06:58:02 · answer #2 · answered by julia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can tell by the way a guy looks at you if he is really into you. if he texts you a lot and pays plenty of attention to you then these are good signs. i would not advise that you say i love you to him first; it will be more enjoyable for you if he says it! give the guy a bit more time, he may just be taking things slowly at first!
good luck!
2007-02-02 07:17:49 · answer #3 · answered by italiana_bella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well being upfront in the situation is key so if he says it wasn't for you, then it wasn't for you. Does he seem to want to be your buddy or something more? Have you guys kissed or done anything romantically or has it been platonic? Maybe you should hint that you are interested in seeing more of him in a romantic sense and see what he does.
2007-02-02 06:55:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know what, action speaks louder than words.A person who really loves you does not need to tell you "i love you " all the time.I think he loves you and you can go for him. And by saying he did not dress up for you he was just testing you.!
2007-02-02 07:21:30 · answer #5 · answered by kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmmm..It must be quite exciting for you.....He could be kidding when he says it's not for you....who else would it be for..he's out with you!?? How many times have you been out....have you kissed?? If I were you, I'd enjoy it and see what happens....good luck!!!
2007-02-02 06:58:11 · answer #6 · answered by prettywoman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he asks you questions it means he wants to know about you. if not, he's not really that into you....but there is the chance that he is just slow to make his move so keep on smiling and be happy around him, one of these days pretty soon something is going to happen that will make it clear one way or the other. but if you really like him you should make some of your own moves!
Good Luck:)))
2007-02-02 06:54:50 · answer #7 · answered by rooster2381 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Talk to him and ask him if he loves you without actually saying the words. Lead him to it.
2007-02-02 07:11:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he said he didn't dress up for you, was he smiling or was he serious? If he was smiling...chances are...he did dress up for you. If he was being serious and wanted to make it clear that he didn't dress up for you, he doesn't really care much for you. ^^
2007-02-02 06:57:35 · answer #9 · answered by just a girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply ask him, by text or email, just say you're wondering if you're not feeling sthg more than friendship for him and ask if he thinks you're wrong to!!!
2007-02-02 09:50:19 · answer #10 · answered by Sophie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
phone him up when it's raining and ask him to come and change your wheel . that's what happened to me and we been married 20 years now . that's what love is ... nothing is too much trouble
2007-02-02 06:57:01 · answer #11 · answered by woodchip1960 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋