This guy want to go out with me, I'm 22, he is 35 but he looks younger like in his mid or late 20's, and very fit with athletic look, black, shaven head. He has a job and work for himself, is creative, and very polite, not a player (he don't belive in sex without love that's why he don't date much), he is single, no kids, no ex, no vice of any kind not even coffee. He treats me better than previous boyfriends of mine, and never disrespected or get angry at me even if I get bitchy. He always remember my birthday and that kind of things, he just is very creative about special dates. We are just friends, but we don't go out; he doesn't pressure me about it, but is obvious he want to be my boyfriend.I been alone for five year because boys can't stand my bad moods, I'm a real ***** sometimes (I kick them out or they kick me before anything happen), I got bad temper and get mad easily at guys. This guy don't mind about my bad temper.
Should I give him a try?
2007-02-02 06:28:29 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG thats my girl !!!! COngrats you found yourself a good man. F the age and the difference! I used to worry that i am 23 and he is 32 but now i aint worried. Because he is all that described of your date. Polite, smart, mature, have a lot of manners, a gentleman, respectful and he definitely kno how to love a woman. I love him so muc, we are going on a strong 8 month being together and i never been so close to anyone, even though i had previous relationships. Give him a try. I promise he will treat you like a queen and even if dont last for too long he may be the guy who show you a lot of different things while you together. Men of his age know how to love and make love and go out and have quality time. They talk to you after sex when regular youngster f u and leave or go to sleep or just stop talking to you. Never here. He rather wake my sleepy a** so he can talk about us. Thats what i am talking about.
Please give him a try for yourself. See on your own. You will have a different outlook on your life too. Try to stop being b*tchy and respect a man just as much as he respect you because he sound like a mature man who is really into you. Give it a shot and you not going to regret. I didnt!
2007-02-02 06:37:45 · answer #1 · answered by BK thang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems like a nice person but you don't mention in your story anything at all about your finding him physically attractive. I think this indicates that you like him and appreciate being treated with kindness and respect but there is obviously no spark between you. Continue with your friendship. Good friends are hard to find.
Also, even though he might look younger, he is still at a different stage of his life and he has experiences that you have yet to look forward to.
2007-02-02 06:37:52 · answer #2 · answered by lizzie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 - I think the age difference at your age is too much.
2 - Even though this guy doesn't seem to mind about your temper now, he probably will in a few years. It's different putting up with a friend's moods vs. your partner's moods. Find out why you have such a bad temper and try to fix it. It's no way to go through life.
3 - Are you sure that he's not a player? Players get that title because they're very good at it. If their various girlfriends knew about each other, he wouldn't have them, would he?
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2007-02-02 06:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by Shaft 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Sure, why not? Nothing wrong with dating. Just remember that this man is 36. I would go out for dinner and while there talk about what you both are looking for and go from there...... Esp. since you said you go out. You may realize that he is not what you thought.....go on a date and just have fun!!
Far as the attitude, learn how to maintain that. You will conitnue to be alone if you dont. A bad temper (knowingly) is not attractive to men. Good Luck!
2007-02-02 06:35:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why not. From the first line of your question it seems like your bothered about the age difference. Don't let that bother you. And the bad temper thing.....stop being so grumpy. If you know you're in a bad mood then think of kittens or bunny rabbits, whatever cheers you up.
2007-02-02 06:33:57 · answer #5 · answered by jezza 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
WHY NOT?!
I was 34 when I met the love of my life and she was 17. It was the BEST 2 years of my life.
It doesn't hurt to give someone a try, how else are you going to know if he's the right one for you.
2007-02-02 08:03:20 · answer #6 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't hurt to give it a try but realize that you are both in different stages of your life. He has already gone through stuff that you still have ahead of you. He may seem indifferent to problems that seem very big to you right now and you might seem childish to him about some things. If you can get around that, it could be alright.
2007-02-02 06:33:12 · answer #7 · answered by J D 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow, I'm in love with a lady who is 36 and I'm 22. Anyway, you should listen to your heart, do you really like him? If so go for it! Love knows no boundaries ;)
2007-02-02 06:51:31 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Owl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! Sounds like a good guy. My best friend and her husband have that exact same age difference between them. There's nothing wrong with that at all. Age shouldn't matter. Its how he treats you that matters!!
2007-02-02 06:35:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Age does not matter to him. He is comfortable with dating someone 14 yrs younger. If it does not matter to you go for it. We will not be dating him you will.
2007-02-02 06:38:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋