I ask this question as I have witnessed many girls around me act ditzy around guys they know, just to reel them in, things like helplessness, being glued to a guys face, all gooey, yuck lol, whenever I talk intelligently I seem to scare them off or they think I make a great mate, although that seems to be happening less lately cos my eyes seem to do plenty of talking since my shyness has gone over the years LOL!
2007-02-02 06:28:21 · 20 answers · asked by greatdane 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ditzy is an easy lay. Sorry but truth is truth. I like the intelligence of a woman who knows her way around. Ditzy is like talking to a stump.
2007-02-02 08:06:17 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a combination of both! I like someone who I can have an intelligent conversation with.. but that's not the "be all and end all" of it.
I think it's the "flaws" which give someone personality. I was married and my ex-wife was intelligent .. but could be a dumb as a brick about some things.. that's what made me love her.
It all comes down to chemistry... just be yourself... don't hide your intelligence, but feel comfortable in the moments where you just feel emotional, silly or vulnerable.
You will be fine... good luck!!
2007-02-02 06:35:39 · answer #2 · answered by tattooed.dragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate ditzy chicks! I want a woman with some brains, somebody I can have an intelligent conversation with. I have no use for girls who act stupid and helpless (especially if I KNOW they're really smart and their just acting dumb!).
Be yourself and you'll find a man who really appreciates you!
2007-02-02 06:32:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Intelligence! I find my self really attracted to smart girls. The ditzy girls are a real turn off.
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2007-02-02 06:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by kennyboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really like an intelligent woman. Some guys like ditzy bc they can more likely take advantage of them!
2007-02-02 06:33:33 · answer #5 · answered by 80srock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I prefer intelligence in a woman. An opinion is important too. There is nothing more annoying to me than a bubbly nincompoop with nothing vital to say. That's just me though.
2007-02-02 06:32:24 · answer #6 · answered by giseler250 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
intellignence is cool but sex it up abit too.
Show you are apraochable and wont bite of have the guy areasts for some kind of perverted stalking for fancying you so he wont get accused for seeing you as a sex object piece of meat etc or all this crap you girls spout.
Show that you are not out of their legaue...
Guys like fiesty girls... so get fiesty, play wrestle, get in moshpits, tickle,play twister, any excuse to get as touchy as possible or where the guy gets to touch you...
ie how you need help with lotion on back and front etc.
Wear sexier clothes, more revieling and tigher... Lycra is good.
Shorts best short likewise skirts or tight tops...
Bear in mind they are shyer then you
Go swimming in biknins, stretching and bending over soing your warm up exercises, take up pole dance lessons, ask them what they think of your routines.
Enter wet t shirt and jelly wrestle type competitons etc...
whilst still being smart.
2007-02-02 06:34:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I like an intelligent girl. I like to have intellectual conversations. It drives me absolutely crazy when girls act stupid or ask really stupid questions that you know they have to know the answer to.
2007-02-02 06:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've dated nothing but intellegent women...I think I prefer ditzy!
2007-02-02 06:35:08 · answer #9 · answered by bluesbreaker65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intelligence, hands down.
If you're scaring away guys by showing your intelligence, then count your blessings - they have serious ego issues.
2007-02-02 06:32:28 · answer #10 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋