I'm dating an over weight chick and her personality is...not so good and she takes a lot of sleep aid medication? How do you let her down - not so gently?
2007-02-02 05:58:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her it's you, not her.
2007-02-02 06:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by Jay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her weight is obviously not an issue. If you had not been attracted to her you would not have started dating her in the first place. So, the issue is simply that her personality, and her use of medication, are not compatible to you. Tell her so! But leave out the weight part.....again, it is not an issue. And please mean it when you say it and GO AWAY. Too many guys keep hanging around for the sex, or whatever, and they are just giving "false hope" to a devastated woman and not allowing her to move on.
2007-02-02 06:10:32 · answer #2 · answered by mannersplease 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand how you ended up dating her in the first place since her weight and attitude are obviously a problem for you. Try to be as nice as possible but perhaps being mean to her was always your real intentions.
2007-02-02 06:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by Narissa J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does her weight have to do with anything? Did she recently gain weight? If not, you're a jerk for calling her names now that things aren't quite right. How do you get past the first date with somebody you aren't attracted to? You're a dweeb.
2007-02-02 06:07:10 · answer #4 · answered by Honey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think someones personality needs to be a reason to be dating. If you are having a problem with that, you probably would be breaking up anyway. I would treat it like any other break up. If she feels it's her weight, that's not your problem. Just be nice, but HONEST!
2007-02-02 06:13:39 · answer #5 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait til her sleep aids have completely worn off then remind her that she has been dating YOU. That ought to really crush her will to live.
2007-02-02 06:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by theartisttwin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be mature and stop leading the girl on by dating her .
If she is not what you want because of her weight then leave her alone .
2007-02-02 06:04:26 · answer #7 · answered by jeffadelic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So it is not that fact that she is overweight, it is her personality that you have a problem with, so you should have not included that in your question. It is unimportant information.
Just tell her you want to see other people. You appear insensitive anyways.
2007-02-02 06:03:06 · answer #8 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come out, be a man, and just tell her that you do not like her and her personality, that she's a ***** and that you are moving on. Easy as one, two, three.
2007-02-02 06:03:17 · answer #9 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry i am not into fat chicks and your sleep aid medication is driving me crazy...............the thing i don't get is why did you go out with her in the first place?
2007-02-02 06:03:00 · answer #10 · answered by Hummm... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pop her with a pin dawg and she will sizzle down 2 a bag of skin ya hear
2007-02-02 06:02:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋