I have recieved many flattering comments from women on my decision to take care of my children alone, but when it comes down to it, they all don't want to hook up, so what's up?
2007-02-02 05:53:52 · 10 answers · asked by diamondbullet66 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nothing is wrong with you it take a mature women to step up
be thankful that those women pass u by because they already
let you know upfront that they can,t handle you or the situation
maybe you need aliitle more patient only because you have
a sensitive situation, but i,ve dated guys who had children
as long as he,s not sleeping with his ex, which sometimes is
a big factor most,but not all the time continue to be a good dad
that along will attract a women for you, and also the women
you met may have been had the heart broken.
2007-02-02 06:05:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess some women like the fact that for a change a man will take responsibility and take care of his children since many fail to do so, but the grim reality is that some women consider taking up a man with children from a previous relationship as baggage. Others are just plain scared that the children will make their lives miserable since ther are not only stories about cruel step-moms, but also about crafty and cruel step children. However, not all women are like that. I am sure that there are women who are mature enough to handle all the responsibilties and troubles that go with step-children just continue looking
2007-02-02 14:02:26 · answer #2 · answered by Bloo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I met my husband about twelve years ago. And he had Four daughters. They are ages 19,17,14, and 12 now. And we have 2 of our own. And we are one big happy family. And his 19 year is married and we also have two grandchildren, they are 3 and 7 months.
2007-02-02 14:08:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd date a guy that has kids - why not? In fact, one of my exs had a 2.5 yrs old that moved in with us 2 wks after we started living together.
2007-02-02 13:57:51 · answer #4 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you give off the impression that youre only out for sex, you never said anything about having a relationship with these women, you only said hooking up and to most people that means getting sex....
2007-02-02 14:02:47 · answer #5 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not single, but I dont think theres anything wrong with dating a guy with kids. As long as your responsible , working, etc.... Good Luck with that dad!!
2007-02-02 14:00:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, how come your kids are only a year apart? Or do I need to ask?
2007-02-02 13:59:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a single woman who already has kids. then she'll be more understanding
2007-02-02 14:01:45 · answer #8 · answered by RLJ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well does your attitude suck? that might be it, cause i don't think having children has to do with it.
2007-02-02 14:02:06 · answer #9 · answered by star-e 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're old and they are lying to you-----you have kids---turn off.
2007-02-02 13:58:15 · answer #10 · answered by Josee G 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋