I was under the influence and hooked up with this guy at a party who I've known for a few years. It was only supposed to be a one time thing, and we wound up getting walked in on which was completely embarrasing. However, now he wants to be my wifey and won't stop calling. I'm not interested in a relationship, and he doesn't get the hint when I won't answer his calls and only communicate with him via text message. I constantly tell him I'm too tired to hang out because I'm stressed from college and work. But he still tries to make me hang out. HELP! He's not the guy for me!
2007-02-02 05:47:56 · 26 answers · asked by ruca 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol You poor thing. Several different ways you can go about this. You can play psycho woman and drive him crazy. Tell him you want at least 12 kids, and you have always dreamed of each of them having their own dog. You want 6 boys named.. Eugene, Edwardo, Edgar, Pauly, Phredric, and Parker. 6 girls named Willamena, LaKritia, Penelope, Sally, Henrietta and Bertha. Each of those names is after one or more of your ancestors and you won't back down.
Also, your aunt told you that while your in college you should have more than one boyfriend to broaden your horizons and you have been thinking more an more on that. It sounds pretty good and there is this guy you know that your going to ask out.
Then you can also go with.... So, someone told me you were really gay and you only went with me to prove a point. If you are that's alright. I understand and completely support you. (before he gets a word in edgewise) I thought I noticed that you were, but I was too afraid to ask. That and I thought maybe I could turn you around, but I see now that I can't. At least tho, we know that we aren't going to be an item. I have a friend I can fix you up with if you want? his name is Paul. He is really nice. Acts a lot like you.
lol just suggestions.. good luck
2007-02-02 06:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your leading him on. You need to just sit him down and tell him the truth. You're still communicating with him by text and that's a ray of hope for him. Be nice and calm and let him know that your not ready for a serious relationship with him and you don't think he's really your type.
2007-02-02 05:53:08 · answer #2 · answered by madmomma 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. A lot of guys these days don't get hints or just ignore them. Tell him that you are not interested in having a relationship right now because you have other very important things in your life that require your attention.
2007-02-02 05:53:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are not interested in him in that way and that you are not ready for a relationship. Sorry but you do not feel as strongly as for him as he does for you and that you do not want to hurt him and if you could stay friends. See I done it so much haha or if he doesnt get that just act up and make him not want to be around you thats the easier way... whine a lot, demand a lot and talk a lot so this way it would scare him off. You pick which way you want.
2007-02-02 05:52:15 · answer #4 · answered by TOokieTook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer the phone, tell him that you really doesn't like him, no chemistry at all and stop being a nuisance, go get a life or find some other girls and don't call again. You must not be nice to him and don't give him false hopes.
2007-02-02 05:53:02 · answer #5 · answered by ButterMilkQueso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you lead him on in the first place ?
Being under the influence is not an excuse for leading someone on .
You just need to deal with the situation you started .
2007-02-02 05:55:19 · answer #6 · answered by jeffadelic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 11:14:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you dont have time, something suddenly came up :) Or just tell him you dont think its a good idea that you hang out anymore, tell him the two of you just dont have anything in common at this point and time. If he still persists, be blunt with him, tell him you simply are not interested in continuing the friendship any further.
2007-02-02 05:51:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know men don't get it like us woman do. Just tell him straight out. Or in a conversation just bring up a conversation telling him that you meet some fine guy at school that give you butterflies in your stomach maybe he will get the clue then
2007-02-02 05:55:05 · answer #9 · answered by Medical Assistant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha ha ha ha ha man, have I been in that prediciment before!!
Sometimes you just straight out have to be rude to someone and have no remorse over it.
Be blunt and to the point............Have a few drinks with a friend, go to your room turn on the music like your at a club, and then call him. You know he'll answer..........so that will be your open case to state your defense.
There is a certain time to be bit chy and a certain time to be nice. Be bit chy and to the point............it works :)
2007-02-02 05:53:51 · answer #10 · answered by John G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋