I got a b/f that i did not treasure a lot and i did lose my temper frequently while he tolerated for a few years...One day he couldn't take it when lost my cool. Happened he went to a party and saw this gal. He poured the feelings out to this gal and this gal tried to snatch him away by bitching abt me...Despite my pleas, he refused to return and he got really confused.He had sex with her at a moment's folly and immediately regretted it...and he came back to me when i was about to give up. Now we are back but i still feel insecure... what should i do
2007-02-02 05:45:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him your feelings and fears and ask him if you can really trust on him and if he will do it again. If you not feel comfortable with him write a letter or e-mail. You should know his opinion. Good luck!!
2007-02-02 05:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by ....................... 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats something you are going to have to live with.....you pushed him in that direction with your temper tantrums throughout the years..it all just came to a boiling point and he couldn't take it anymore....there is only so much that the human being can take.....so he needed to blow off some steam from years of emotional abuse from you........you could either change your attitude and keep your temper in check or just end the whole thing....either way you choose, the fact is this is something you have to learn from and make the necessary changes in your attitude for future relationships.
2007-02-02 14:01:47 · answer #2 · answered by fox mulder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and do the same to him.If he went out like that he should have stayed gone for your benefit.
2007-02-02 13:55:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋