how do i move on?

Question

I was with a guy for 2 years(i am 22) i have had like 2 other long term boyfriends..ne ways I bought him a car in april for 1500 dollars with the plan of him slowy paying me back..he was visiting his daughter in west v. for a few months and while down there his car broke down so i bought that car so he could *** back 2 ny. He was back for 3 weeks and one day i came home and he was gone with all his stuff and the car..he ended up meeting someone while he was in wv and moved back there!!! this all happened in may. I think the way he left me is making everything worse and he hasnt payed me a penny for the car!! I think i will never get the money back, i learned from that mistake..but i can;t stop thinking about him and if he came back 2day id prob. be with him..how do i stop thinking about him, dream about him, cry about him constantly , i feel like i loved him so much!! i feel like its my fault too because the reason he ever went back to wv is cuz i broke up with him for awhile..

if i would have never broke up with him in the 1st place he would had never met that girl in wv..who is 17 by the way he is 25...he never has jobs he alwauys lies..so why do i wanna be with him, how do i get strong, everysingle thing reminds me of him..when im at work i cry i constantly think of him!!!!!!!!!!! i know its life breaking up , and u all will prob say just get over it ..but i cant!!! i dont get it..i was a good person to him and he screwed me so bad!! i always replay the day he left and it kills me thinking about how bad it felt when i came home and he was gone!!!!!!! it makes me sick!!!!!!!!!! please help someone i wanna be dead sometimes..

Answer 1

Let's get this straight. He's 25 (you are 22). He has a daughter in WV, from some other relationship. Now he's living with a 17 year old. And you bought him a car for $1500.

Well, unless the papers for the car are in your name, you can kiss the money goodbye. This guy is a worthless user. The chances of you getting back together are the same as the chances he will get back with the mother of that daughter you mentioned- which is NIL.

Denial, Anger, Desperation, Despair- Acceptance. You are stuck in despair, but acceptance will come. {ut yourself in places where other men can notice you, ask you out. Move the focus of attention AWAY from him (I miss him) and ONTO yourself (I need a new man).

Be selfish- you deserve it !