2007-02-02 05:43:35 · 11 answers · asked by imnot_thegirl_nextdoor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whenever you feel ready. everyone feels differently about it I guess, and it depends on situation. when you feel you're ready to take it further, well I'll guess you'll just know.
2007-02-02 05:50:18 · answer #1 · answered by RLJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the person you are seeing.
i would think that there is no magic number as really sleeping with another person is a big step in any relationship.
i have done it on the first date but i am a guy and i know that is a sexist statement but guys usually will go as far as the partner will let him...i was starting college and i went out with a really nice girl (my dream lover"?) and i treated her like a lady and i did not make any moves. Then this girl told people i knew behind my back that I was a wet blanket and boring. I did not ask for a second date.
Whatever you do you have to live with yourself. What would you tell a daughter of yours or your kid sister.
It is not premarital sex if you are not intending to get married.
When ask what you think about premarital sex the answer is usually..what for me or my kid sister.
In Europe the young people have a more free attitude about sex yet there is less disease and children born out of wed lock.
The average family in the U.S is now a single mother. So pick your standards and keep that high...but its your life...
2007-02-02 13:56:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't count the dates before you are intimate. The relationship should develop until you feel strongly for that person and you know that the person feels strongly for you.
And use protection when you do decide to sleep with someone.
2007-02-02 13:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no time limit, but you do want to know that they have been tested and can show you the results. You need to know that there is no ex hanging around in their life. You need to know that they are not married. If they have kids you need to know whether that is something that you are cool with. Other than that like I said there is no time limit.
2007-02-02 13:49:37 · answer #4 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it all depends on many things:
1) How much do you trust the person
2) How do you feel about the person
3) What do you want with the relationship
4) How comfortable are you with the person
5) How old you are
2007-02-02 13:49:01 · answer #5 · answered by Tedo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as take for you to feel comfortable with that person
in my opinion you are better off waiting, now your body is
gonna crave for each other and it is nothing wrong with acting on
it. the only thing is what if you change you mind about this person
because you barely know each other.but you already know what
you are gonna pursue just use condoms, because they save alot
of trip to the clinic,from both party, and i not saying it to
say you both have something,just protect each other it mean you
care about each other.
2007-02-02 13:54:29 · answer #6 · answered by Tella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how hot you are for him!!
Take things slowely and you'll find out how much he really likes you. Quick movers will always be bored more quickly........slow movers will enjoy a longer relationship.
2007-02-02 13:47:50 · answer #7 · answered by John G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't sleep with or have sex with them. You wait till your married for that.
2007-02-02 13:50:52 · answer #8 · answered by scrow_80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For as long as you under stand them and making sure they are no cheaters.
2007-02-02 13:47:14 · answer #9 · answered by pimpers paradise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how do u feel bout them dont "do it" just cause u feel the need if ya know what i mean
2007-02-02 13:48:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋