I am a girl (obviously) lol...and I fall pretty hard for guys. When I have a crush on some dudes, it turns into something I think about alot. And girls tend to seem to be more deeply in love- when they love. They seem to crash and burn harder than guys do..this is just from observation. I guess my question is, guys when you all find a nice girl do you think about what she is doing, thinking, wearing, etc. Does the relationship phase you? Do you get excited at the prospect of seeing her again? May be a dumb question..but hey...
2007-02-02 05:41:32 · 22 answers · asked by Alabaster Angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think guys do fall just has hard, just in a different process. Girls see a guy and become enamored with them and tend to fantasize, i think, about the perfect relationship with the guy being sensitive to their needs and providing the perfect emotional support while being strong enough so that the girl feels secure and protected. Guys see a girl and immediately blood flows to his penis. Once he gets to know her, and it may take a while, then he'll come to his senses and began to appreciate her for the (hopefully) beautiful creature that she really is, inside and out.
2007-02-02 05:48:32 · answer #1 · answered by Andy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm dating a man that calls me ask me what I'm wearing today ,he always tell me he can't wait to see me b/c we only see each other over the weekend sometimes, he's a nice person and he always have something nice to say,he's always excited to see me it's a nice feeling to know that men can fill the same way us girls do,and you don't have to fall crash or burn in order to be deeply in love or care 4 a man.And that go's the same 4 a man there are some women out there that can b just as cold as men so you do the math! Good Luck
2007-02-02 06:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by Susan O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys generally hate to be driven by their emotions, so over the years we have perfected the skills required to bury our emotions effectively.
When a man falls for a lady, now I mean really fallen, then it is left to the lady to continue to reassure herself because the guy will tend to be freer in the company of other females because he no longer feels them, his whole being would be given to that one he loves while at the same time he would not want to feel like he is already owned. Even though he feels like this he gets jealous when he observes the lady doing the same... you know, exercising freedom in the company of other guys.
It is generally a delicate business, but the answer is... yes, we fall for you ladies as hard as you fall for us, it is just that our emotional drive is less activated... i guess that's why men find it hard to cry.
2007-02-02 06:05:44 · answer #3 · answered by agboola f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes we do. We all have those same feelings only its not "ok" for us guys to show emotions like that. If he tells guys then he's whipped, if he tells girls then he's "soft." So unfortunately for us we gotta keep those feelings under wrap and really only display those true feelings to you. But if it gets to the point where he Loves you then he wont care what anyone says or thinks and his boys will respect him for that and so will girls. But if we were just talking about our emotions all the time......we'd never get any girls or have any friends. Blame society and our cultural views.
2007-02-02 05:53:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think guys crash and burn harder. I was in love once and when that thang fell apart I was murderous. I was suicidal, homicidal, and basically every-negative-thing-acidal. So yea we love you crazy dames. Your feelings are not in vane.
2007-02-02 05:48:54 · answer #5 · answered by Immortal Cordova 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, guys do feel as deeply as girls but they don't always show their true feelings because they don't want to appear weak and helpless and when you are head over heels in love that's how you feel. I know my husband loves me as much as I love him because he tells me and once he even said that his soul was in love with my soul....doesn't get much more romantic than that!
2007-02-02 05:49:25 · answer #6 · answered by stacye5398 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
harder, especially when someone cheats on us, it makes us feel like we were not enough or something that you had to run to another guy, plain and simple guys need girls way more than they put on and we fall hard
2007-02-02 05:50:14 · answer #7 · answered by IisIam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a dumb question at all.
I still remember my ex of 10 years ago like it was today.
Her smell,touch,voice,smile,the way her body felt pressed against me,ect.It is even bad enough that certain songs remind me of her and it hurts to remember.
So to answer your question,"YES".
2007-02-02 05:49:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know my boyfriend does...he tells me and writes me letters and stuff something alot of guys dont.
2007-02-02 05:46:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some do but they are few and far between
men and women are just different
we shouldnt even be the same species
2007-02-02 05:48:00 · answer #10 · answered by buzzy_bot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋