I was once a fat nerd in high school so I never really did approach girls and I was an outcast now im hot with muscles and I have been away for college where are alot of women are whistling and flirting with me and telling me how handsome I am . When I went home those same women who teased me in high school tried to get with me and I dumped them hard with no heart. Cool Revenge?
2007-02-02 05:34:47 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Definately. If they made fun of you, then they only like you because of how you look. Dump 'em for sure.
2007-02-02 05:39:08 · answer #1 · answered by matrix man 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How can you dump a girl who's just flirting with you? Unless you were in some kind of relationship, there's no relationship to end- no one to dump. Get off yourself, please.
I understand the feeling of wanting to get revenge, I was an outcast in high school too. And whereas I used to get teased alot, now I get hit on by those same guys. But what you're doing is just immature. First of all, unless the girls you 'dumped' attach their self value to your opinion of them, you not giving them play won't stir them whatsoever because they know that most girls can get a guy's attention very easily. Just because they don't have your attention doesn't mean that they get none at all.
Don't be arrogant. It doesn't matter how good you look if your personality is like that of a bamma. I hear guys talking about pretty girls with ugly attitudes all the time. Women talk about the same thing. Regardless of your looks, if you're not a cool person to be around, the whistles and stares are all you'll get 'cause once a woman meets you, she's going to think you're a jerk.
2007-02-02 05:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by Honey 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Not everyone can be in your position, and that is in the drivers seat. Have a heart though and don't get so convinced of your own attractiveness that you forget how to be good person. Take the higher road and people will not only admire you for your good looks, but, that you have grown as a person inside. Besides, you can proably drive those girls crazy with that "I like you as a friend" line. Play the game and don't be such a hard ***. Make your parents proud and you will be surprised as the world becomes your oyster!
2007-02-02 05:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by make room for daddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, pay back is so sweet. But why would you want some loser girl friend. Get a girl that went to college. Now those girls are to dumb. The ones I went with in High school and got married are fat uneducated and divorced with 2 or 3 kids.
I never date a girl that doesn't have a good job and education.
I don't want some divorcee with 3 kids and stretch marks.
who wants a high school drop out. Glad i never married one of them I would be stuck with child support the rest of my life while she sits on her butt thinking the world owes her a living.
2007-02-02 05:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by Steven 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey some girls like nerds but as for the ones who teased you you should have just ignored them. If they were that conceited back then they probably haven't gotten over it yet. And I wouldn't be so focussed on women liking you because you look nice but because you have a nice personality or good character. At least that way you'll know they are really in to you.
2007-02-02 06:17:03 · answer #5 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn right... it's gotta make you feel good and they deserve it. I used to a be a fat chick in high school, now I'm pretty hot. I see the same suckers that wouldn't have given me the time of day in high school and it makes me feel sooooo good to turn em down. It also feels good to see the guy who broke my heart or the girl who made fun of me got fat.
2007-02-02 05:38:34 · answer #6 · answered by Devin S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that it sounds like instant gratification - they rejected you, now you rejected them...ok so now what?? Some people just don't appreciate or see inner beauty and that is a real shame. I hope you find someone that sees you for the person you are on the inside and not just the hot bod on the outside...
2007-02-02 05:39:21 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need to get revenge, you are still stuck in the past.
The best revenge is to get someone you really love, a really gorgeous, wonderful girlfriend and move on with your life.
You'll watch the other girls melt with jealousy and realize they lost their chance with you when they mocked you.
2007-02-02 05:38:16 · answer #8 · answered by Somebody, somewhere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best way to do it is get close to them get them to realy trust you and build a strong emotional bond between the two of you just make sure shes the one with the bond you know get her to invest her self in you on more than just a physical level then when she thinks your thoughts are worth something start picking away at her personality and looks then climax and destroy her drop her like a bomb and make her thinks its all her thought that she was the one with the problems trust me ive messed up alot of good looking women like this you just got to keep your head and be patent
2007-02-03 08:40:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good for you cause i bet those chicks are all a little heavier now. i moved away from my hometown and back in highshool i was always one of the boys, but not one of the girls the guys wanted to date and when i returned home and hooked up with some old friends most of the guys who wouldnt give me the time of day in high school were suddenly falling allover themselves to get me drinks and crap...i milked it for all it was worth and when it was time leave i went back home laughing.. so hell yeah it felt good didnt it.
2007-02-02 05:40:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋