hey gys ok this is the story ... i have this friend and we have been close for like 2 yrs so we talk bout everything practicly ... but then i started looking at him difforently and started caring about how i looked around him and stuff so then i realized that i like him !! but he has a girl friend and usually i would totaly stay away from him because well its just plain wrong .... but then yesterday me and him were talking and i sayed ..." ya well i like some one but he has a gril friend and i dono what to do"? and he sayed " well first you should figure out if he likes you" so after that whole convoe, he asked me to come t his rugby game .. and i put me head on on his shoulder and he did the same ..... wow im soo confused what should i do !!!!!!!
2007-02-02 05:27:03 · 9 answers · asked by brookie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've already answered your question..."it's just plain wrong".
2007-02-02 05:31:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm unsure why you're confused. Nothing he said indicated that he likes you the same way. Even if he did, if he's unwilling to break up with his girlfriend for you, there's no point entertaining the thought of being in a relationship with him.
Is he the only boy in town? Do you live a sheltered life where you don't know or come across other boys? If not, intentionally going after a boy who already has a girlfriend, makes you selfish. Also, why would he wanna be with you knowing that you'll hurt someone (his current girlfriend) for your own selfish reasons?You could the same to him- hurt him for your own selfish reasons. He'd be a fool to trust his heart to you.
2007-02-02 05:35:08 · answer #2 · answered by Honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should first find out if the feeling is felt between the both of you if so then he has a decision to make. but how do you know that when the two of you get together he might do the same to you as he is doing his girlfriend
2007-02-02 05:33:57 · answer #3 · answered by tameka r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you like a girl to steal your boyfriend?
I didn't think so. If he liked you more than a friend, he would
have figured that out a long time ago. Leave him alone until he is single.
2007-02-02 05:31:15 · answer #4 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not even go read aall that! you never still nobody man, and get the left over or be 2nd. But if you feel bossy go for it, but in my hood that will get you a, a s s kickin
2007-02-02 05:30:53 · answer #5 · answered by Ms pretty (Detroit, Mi) holla! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
:) funny !! but yeah !! I think your friend is right ...you should figure out if that person likes you, but don't the person to dump his gf for you ...!! and also get to know if that person truly loves her gf by asking questions about her subtly to see what his opinion, if you see a trace of doubt of him about his love for his gf then probably he will soon leave her for you ..but, you see that she loves his gf very much .then you should probably just be friend with him and avoid situations that gets you so close to each other ...a boyfriend stiller reputation is not that good ..!!
Good Luck !!
2007-02-02 05:40:48 · answer #6 · answered by bobby s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leav him alone! if he leaves his gf, then it's open season, but until then i would do nothing. think about it, if he messes around on his current gf with you, what's to say he won't mess around on you later on?
2007-02-02 05:31:47 · answer #7 · answered by Carrie H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should leave him alone, he is in a relationship all you can do is be his friend and let his relationship take its course....
2007-02-02 05:34:04 · answer #8 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how would like it if someone did that with your bf??
2007-02-02 05:31:16 · answer #9 · answered by B2B2008 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋