ok well i know this guy know for about 4months and we recently started dating today was a bit well..Just one question he started touching me (everywhere EVERYWHERE! But with my clothes on)and he even said he wants to make love to me!
he really likes me I know but why was he sooo well you know hor!y today??
He couldnt stop but why is this normal??
Should i be careful he doesnt like rape me or sumin??
hes 18 im 16
thanks!!!
2007-02-02 05:13:02 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes! You should be very careful! At 18 most , boys ,young men are very horney ! Why do you think some women teachers seem to find some young boy to have sex with them? It is so hormonal! You will not be able to talk sense to a guy in that hormonal state of mind. If you like this guy that's tough, he will find every excuse to get you alone. Don't fall for it. Make him pick you up at your house, make him wait, meet your parents and have
them chit chat, you know have your mom or dad ask him about his parents etc. double date, not with any "bad girls" and stop letting him "feel you up" you are only giving him the hope of getting to the next step.
You have heard the stories about teenage preganancies, well you are at the waters edge. You need to get some help to keep boys in there place, and that is in their own pants and not yours. Don't be discouraged, but, be firm and strong. Girls do get bad reputations from getting taken advantaged of by horney dudes alot! So don't kid yourself. If he can't get over pressuring you for sex, CUT HIM LOOSE! Good Luck! I know if you were my daughter, Niece etc. if I didn't flex on dude I would find someone who would.
2007-02-02 05:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by make room for daddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen carefully...
He probably wont rape you but don't let him get to far unless you are ready for sex.
A guys animal instincts take over once he sees the goodies and knows he is only inches from getting it. It will be nearly impossible to stop him if you let him get to far with you so unless you are ready to go all the way with him cool it a little now..
If he truly loves you....... and he's not just saying it to get into your pants ......he will stay with you...if he is only after sex then he will get mad and leave you.
You have to make the call....we can't but either way be careful.
2007-02-02 05:22:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I'm 16. I think that would be considered rape because he is 18 and that's the age where you are considered an adult. So, yup that would be rape. Be careful.
2007-02-02 05:20:43 · answer #3 · answered by prettyting 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Watch yourself. For one its statutory rape(spelling?) and if you like him and he likes you enough to wait then wait till you are of age. If your folks catch wind of this they may press charges. Also, he may be taking advantage of you because you are so young. Does he get a bit forceful? Does he not respect your wishes when you ask him to stop? If he doesn't you have the possibility of an unwanted sexual encounter. BE CAREFUL!
2007-02-02 05:20:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
boys want just one thing SEX he is 18 r u under age if not then he will lay you whether u give your consent or not, rape can not be ruled out you have to take care and take a step at a time. at your peril
2007-02-02 05:19:33 · answer #5 · answered by KOHLI V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seriously doubt he loves you afer such a short time.s for the touching everywhere like that sounds like he is just trying to get you in bed.Relationship will probably end hen he does.
2007-02-02 05:28:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys at this age are ready at anytime to do anything that you will let them do. I think that you are safe from rape, however; if you don't want him to touch you and stuff you are going to have to tell him!
2007-02-02 05:18:19 · answer #7 · answered by broncosfan1730 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i be attentive to a guy which may well be stupid yet is prevalent with whilst to be severe. i like that and that i think of that maximum women do too. humorous adult adult males are purely plenty exciting! yet i'm useful there's a woman obtainable that desires a severe guy.....
2016-12-16 19:38:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
either way you look at it. its illegal. the thing you have to be careful about is if he is making you uncomfortable.its really not that normal, i guess if he's really that horny and wants it. if you dont like it then tell him to stop. if you dont want to have sex then just say no. if he really cares about you then he wont do anything to make you feel uncomfortable. good luck.
2007-02-02 05:19:06 · answer #9 · answered by EddyBear 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he probably just wants the sex and doesnt really like u. just push him off if u dont like it or u dont feel ur ready for that yet. if he gets mad and leaves then u know he wanted just sex, but if he says he understands u and he wont do it again till ur ready, then he really wants to be with u.
2007-02-02 05:17:56 · answer #10 · answered by oc 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋