GURLS help me please?

Question

how can i get over ex_boyfriend we still talk and it semms like he want to get back wit me and i am afraid that he might hurt me agian please help me

Answer 1

How do you get over him?

Easy.

Stop talking to him!

Answer 2

OMG im going throught the same thing. Have not seen him since saturday and im really thinking about changing my number b/c I dont need hime in my life.Theres always a reason for the things he does he just cant man up. And he had the nerve to tell me i was missing out on my blessing LOL. Please. You will know in your heart when he is through playing the games and is really serious about a relationship. In my case I really want to talk back to my ex but i KNOW he is not ready its all in the conversation. You can tell by the conversation if he is interested in becoming a major part in your life. Hes always joking and if we get in an argument he may call back hours later like nothing ever happened. I feel like I wasted 2years of my time its ok just think of it as you will always be BETTER than him and he will fall for someone one day and get his heart broke. Good Luck

Answer 3

If he has already hurt you once the odds are pretty good he will do it again. The best thing for you is to put some distance between the two of you, dont' talk to him or see him. That will help you move on, maybe think about dating other guys. Maybe later you and he can be really and truly just friends but you need to put your best interest first and find someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Goodluck

Answer 4

He is an EX because.... You made him an ex for that reason so make sure you don't fall into that pit of staying available to him because all your doing is making yourself available to being used and hurt. MOVE on there are plenty of men in this world. Don't waste your time with someone you choose to be history! Delete his number from your cell, phone book, and don't look back and don't answer his calls.. Let him know he missed a good thing when he "had" it. Too late... his lost! Keep your chin up, your Mind strong and keep walking!Good luck! Someone ready to treat you like the queen that you are is around the corner.. he'll come in good time too! Find a hobby to keep you busy and mind off of that guy whose lost out.. Stay strong and where's your pride girl :)

Answer 5

You need to keep telling yourself all the reasons why he is so wrong for you. An ex is an ex for a reason. He hurt you, and if he wants you back, and you let it happen, you'll fall back into the same pattern you two were in before. Move on and find another man. Or hang out in new places where he won't be.

Answer 6

It depends on how many times you think you can stand being hurt. I went through this about 5 times (love is blind). He truly was a nice guy, we just had issues that we didn't understand at that age. Finally, over a period of 3 or so years , I was too emotionally bruised to do anything but sink to my knees after telling him that if he did it one more time, I wasn't going to survive.

So what's your pain tolerance? Do you confide in friends? I didn't. You need a human shield to bolster you. Don't take him back. Don't talk to him on the phone. Surround yourself with your girlfriends for awhile. Volunteer at a soup kitchen.

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Answer 7

You have to figure out weither you want to take that risk. If he hurt you be4 it is a possiblity he'll do it again. You have to decide is he worth the risk of getting your heart broke agin. If he is try again if you feel he isn't. DONT. Also, how sincere does he sound? Talk about everything be4 you say yes. Make sure everythings out and in the open. GOOD LUCK!

Answer 8

its no longer you its me: an magnificent line, lol, it ability nicely, that, ITS YOU SHE basically lost the preliminary charm ;) I jus wanna b pals: you be attentive to, we are able to offer some crossed indicators, yet person-friendly! heavily, i jus wanna b pals ability i jus wanna b pals, lol, she doesnt want you 2 to end talking thoroughly, she nonetheless needs ta carry close out and stuff, basically unlike u generally did with the snugeling and stuff. while she sleeps with you bff, then says she luvs you and doesnt remorseful approximately that, it ability its time so you might get a clean female buddy, for a pair motives a million. Why might a 15 year previous wanna sleep with an 18 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous, that is against the regulation 2. If she loves you, might she have slept with him interior the 1st place????? um... no! 3. jus unload her, and whether she says she wont do this returned, teach her a lesson, kick her to the shrink! shes no longer nicely worth it sluggish!

Answer 9

He's a typical heartbreaker. Thinks he can get all the girls. Don't even dare talking to him like you're still a couple. Because if he broke your heart one, he's going to do it again. Don't talk to him a lot, you don't have to totally ignore him but don't act like you're still head over heels over him. He'll get an ego. Just MOVE ON! He's not worth it. Trust me.
Good Luck!
-Micah

Answer 10

well best thing is, is to keep trying the friends thing and see what happens from there. you have to ask your self why is he your ex in the first place? and are you willing to go threw that again? because some people change and some don't just keep your guard up girl and hang in there if you love him try it out but slow!!!
and remember this!!!!
You have to take the good with the bad, smile with the sad, love what you've got and remember what you had.
Always forgive, but never forget, learn from your mistakes, but never regret.
PEOPLE CHANGE, THINGS GO WRONG, but just remember life goes on. Good Luck

Answer 11

stay away from him. or try to talk to other guys. i know from experience that if you break up with someone and you remain friends , it will be extra hard to get over the person. keep your distance for a while till you feel strong enough to be around him without feeling the same old feelings.