My bf and i have been going out for the past 6months and i love him to death and he says he loves me too but i dunno if he for real. some times i feel like all he;s dating me for is for the sex? but if that was true wouldnt he be having sex with other girls too? I'm so confused someone please give me some helpful answers...please and thank you!
2007-02-02 05:01:46 · 8 answers · asked by heatherstike2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound really young...don't rush things...yes, he may just be with you for the sex...if so, stop doing it, and see what his reaction is....if he's understanding and all that, he has feelings for you...if he gets mad, or feels insulted or tries to give you a guilt-trip, he most likely doesn't feel the way you do....and by the way, sex is NOT how you show someone you love them..it is an expressison of that love...but not what it "means"...it is NOT a way to "prove" your love...
And, some guys are kinda lazy that way...they know a girl will give it up, and they know they can count on it from you...so why should they take a chance on another girl who may not, and risk losing the one who will...think about it.....
2007-02-02 05:11:21 · answer #1 · answered by Toots 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is dating you for the sex. He will never marry you. Why buy the cow when the milk is free? If he can find another girl to have sex with, he'll be having sex with her too and not just you.
If you want to know if he truly loves you, then tell him that you've decided premarital sex is wrong. You are going to quit having sex until you get married. If he leaves you, tell him, that you will not have sex hereafter until marriage. Tell him you are not trying to force marriage on him. You will feel the same even if he leaves. Tell him that you feel like sex is the only reason that he comes around and you are tired of feeling that way. Tell him it is not his fault, it is your fault for ever having sex with him.
2007-02-02 13:14:30 · answer #2 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
questions to ask yourself?
is he with me alot or does he avoid me?
does he show affection in public or not?
have you caught him in lies?
if he is doing all the positive I would say he loves you but if he's putting friends first and lieing to you and showing no affection in public then I would say either he doesn't love you or is cheating on you... Not all men are the same but that's what happened with me!
2007-02-02 13:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by mc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes , if he was dating you just for sex, he would be with other girls!! You do sound confused!!! You don't say "i love you" if you don't mean it!! Good Luck!!
2007-02-02 13:05:47 · answer #4 · answered by goddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you he will give you the last piece of food that he has on his plate no matter how much he wanted it himself. Try that!
2007-02-02 13:06:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love your bf... you should not doubt.... simple... "trust" will make your relationship last...once you don't have trust, that's the end of it,... by the way sex is very important too...not just sex make it more adventurous to add some spice to your relationship, thanks...
2007-02-02 13:16:42 · answer #6 · answered by John in the 25th century 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have trust issues if so work on it all you can do is trust him when he says loves you that is pretty much all you can do!!
2007-02-02 13:05:32 · answer #7 · answered by notyochic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's lust
2007-02-02 13:03:57 · answer #8 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋