i met a guy new to my school about a month ago and liked him the day i met him. we connected the first day. about two weeks ago, my friend (his cousin) told me he likes me. i like him too but we are both shy to discuss it together. we went out for like an hour to talk and it was pretty good. i told his cousin to tell him that i like him too but if we do go out, it will be serious. now, he is telling her that he wants to be close with me but doesn't want a serious relationship. I dont understand what he means by that. He still comes and talks to me like he used to but I just dont understand him. I myself aren't ready to date him because it is soon and his cousin told him that already. maybe he is trying to do what i want him to do? He also told her that he doesn't want to mess it up. Does he want to get to know me more or something else? please help!
2007-02-02 05:00:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first eliminate the messenger you two need to talk about things not you him and your cousin. mabey he wants to take things slow and really get to know you first before he starts to get serious which is understandable just take your time
2007-02-02 05:06:34 · answer #1 · answered by tameka r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the word serious scares boys don't ever use it, with them. I would say he wants to take it slow and get to know you, and see what will beocme of you two. Just relax, everything will be fine
2007-02-02 05:05:05 · answer #2 · answered by pippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to respect your feelings. He's trying to be extra cautious not to move to fast and run you away. Thats a good thing!
2007-02-02 05:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Truthfully♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want a serious relationship and he doesnt then just be friends until he does want a serious relationship what else can you lose if you like him and he likes you
2007-02-02 05:06:25 · answer #4 · answered by hotchick199411 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he respects the fact that you do not know each other that well yet and he is trying to give it more time before he jumps into a relationship with you.
2007-02-02 05:04:35 · answer #5 · answered by IisIam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definately try to talk it out with him instead of your cousin. You only have one life so live it to its fullest.
2007-02-02 05:08:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you and wants to get to know you but he is being cautious as well, he likes you enough not to want to hurt you if anything should happen if he enters into a relationship with you...
2007-02-02 05:12:36 · answer #7 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this should prove to u that he wants one thing from u,
he will use u then forget about u.
becareful.
2007-02-02 05:08:26 · answer #8 · answered by tabatha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no kiss or hug stuff girl. dats wat he thinx is serious. u can go on a coffee, funfair, movie, mall stuff 2gether.
2007-02-02 05:05:03 · answer #9 · answered by Aznin D. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋