Do they feel awkward? Should they remains as friends or not see each other anymore? Any experience? Are there any chances of reconciliation after long time or short time? Will the friendship lasts? Any experience, you people out there?
2007-02-02 04:59:00 · 9 answers · asked by ButterMilkQueso 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She mention that we can have tea if I don't mind.
2007-02-02 05:07:57 · update #1
It depends totally on the personalities of the people. Some people can manage it after any kind of breakup and some people can't. There are NO "shoulds". There may be regrets that one or the other spends a lifetime with. There are chances at reconciliation usually after a long time and many other life experiences. There are chances of friendship with a former lover. Usually people go their separate ways, making new lives.
2007-02-02 05:08:04 · answer #1 · answered by Casperia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always maintained a friendship with my ex lovers. We are friends to this day. I would rather have friends than enemies. It was too bad when we didn't make it as a couple but we decided that we would rather be friends. Some of them it took longer to become friends because there were bad bitterness between us for a time, but always we came back to being friends.We don't see each other often, but we send emails and christmas cards etc.
2007-02-02 05:05:26 · answer #2 · answered by katie d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is possible to be friends with an X - depending of course how the separation was, if it was an ugly separation then no. Also I dont think it should be expected right away. I think after some time passes and things cool down some, it is possible to be friends.
2007-02-02 05:07:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never been able t remain friends with my past loves. It was awkward whenever we would run into each other. On the other hand, my husband has remained friendly with 2 of his ex-girlfriends. I think the main difference was that i was "in love" with my past love....he was my first bf and we dated for years. So it was a particulary painful breakup when it occured. My husband was never "in love" prior to me, and his gf wasn't in love with him either. They just drifted together and then drifted apart.
2007-02-02 05:06:37 · answer #4 · answered by Kirsten 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is extremely difficult, especially if they were in love.
It's only happened once with me. I broke up with my gf and bf a year ago. I still run into them a lot at the dojo. I'm still not able to be friends with my ex-gf, but am able to get along in a friendly way with my ex-bf.
It has been a painful year, though and I'm only getting to the point where I can feel somewhat normal around him. She said and did too many things for me to feel comfortable around her.
2007-02-02 05:08:28 · answer #5 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it can happen. Its not easy but I am friends with my ex fiance of 10 years engaged for six. And we just broke up 2 months ago. Its hard in the beginning but it gets easier with time.
2007-02-02 05:04:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people claim you can be friends, but frankly I don't think so. I'm on friendly terms, but no where near 'friends' with any of my ex's nor do I plan on it.
2007-02-02 05:03:50 · answer #7 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres a chance that you can be friends unless she really doesnt like you anymore
2007-02-02 05:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by hotchick199411 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they should not see each other
2007-02-02 05:02:14 · answer #9 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋