Have you ever gone to a bar alone because you wanted a few drinks, but had no one to go with you? What was your experience? And did you feel like a lame loser?
I ask, because I've moved to a new area with knowing no one, and sitting home alone tonight, doesn't sound fun, but going somewhere alone...seems like a lame losers than to do.
2007-02-02 04:58:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Food & Drink ➔ Beer, Wine & Spirits
WOW!!! I never even thought about it like that, now I'm a little excited, what nice helpful people you are! Thank you!!!!!!
2007-02-02 05:45:23 · update #1
One of the reasons bars were invented was for people like you tonight and being alone doesn't make you a loser-you can be a loser within a whole crowd of people!!
Think of the advantages.
1) You don't have to remember whose round it is.
2) You can order your next drink whether anyone else is ready or not.
3) There's going to be no argument as to when you leave
4) You don't owe anyone a conversation
5) Its your choice where you sit.
Actually this is sounding so good I'll be round and join you
2007-02-02 05:06:55 · answer #1 · answered by bearbrain 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I always go to the bar alone. I have friends, but sometimes just like to go out on my own for a couple drinks. You meet a lot of new people. I always have fun. I just make it clear to anyone that I'm not looking for a date - just having fun. One thing I've learned is to not let anyone buy you drinks. Then, they will assume you're a loser at a bar looking for a one-night stand.
2007-02-02 05:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by jennifer74781 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I used to when I was single, and had recently moved to a new city. I thought it was a great way to pass the evening. I never actually made any "real" friends at the bar, but it beat the heck out of sitting home alone. I didn't feel awkward, and it's fun to sit at the bar.
2007-02-02 05:11:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've gone to bars by my self many times and sometimes I end up talking to some stranger who's also there alone who just wanted to get out and have a drink , I've been asked to join groups of people I don't even know . . or I talk to the bartender . . .but I'm the friendly kind person . . I make my own fun . . my biggest problem is that men tend to think your there to meet a man not just have a drink and relax . . just watch yourself for the wierdos . .
2007-02-02 05:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by Rainy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm perfectly comfortable going to a bar alone, working in them for some years makes me fairly confident and drinking alone is actually quite pleasant every now and again. I dont think it's a lame loser thing to do at all, I think it shows a bit of independance.
2007-02-02 05:08:20 · answer #5 · answered by penny century 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are talking about, I have been through it. But remember, staying at home isn't going to introduce you to new people. I was nervous at first, you know, the whole getting to know the people, hoping I walked into the right bar/club. I don't think it would be considered a loser sometimes it's even better. You can leave when you wanna or stay as long as you want.
2007-02-02 05:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I frequently go into bars alone and I'll tell you why and this is honest truth.
It's because I have TOO MANY friends and a lovely girlfriend and a massive family and sometimes it's actually nice to get away from all this, where you can feel a bit suffocated.
Just to take a breather from everything and talk to total strangers who wont judge you because they dont know you.
It also helps to be male as it's safer and it helps if you don't live in a rough neighbourhood
2007-02-02 05:04:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I gotta get into my sexist mode in order to answer your question.
First, a woman going to a bar alone no longer has much of an impact because many women do it. The problem arises because women, having smaller body mass, tend to be affected more readily by alcohol. Then there is the problem of WATCHING your drink being made AND NEVER letting it out of your site.
So it's not surprising that I don't recommend your solution. Here's what I recommend:
1. Groom immaculately
2. Dress nicely
3. Spend an hour a day in the library
4. Spend an hour a day at the gym
5. Get involved in a worthy community function
6. Volunteer a few hours a week for a worthy cause
7. Help someone every day
8.Go to Church
9.Take group dance lessons
13.SMILE
Good Luck
2007-02-02 05:44:13 · answer #8 · answered by snvffy 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Bring a book to the bar, I know people who do it, it's no different than going to a coffee establishment and reading while enjoying a java. Maybe someone will come up and start up a conversation, if you are interested in talking to them, set the book down, if not tell them you came here to enjoy a drink and get some reading done but thanks for offering some company!
2007-02-02 05:09:35 · answer #9 · answered by Jana 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you go to the same bar on a regular basis you get to know the rest of the regulars and the bartenders. It's pretty cool. Just pay attention to how much you drink if you have to drive.
2007-02-05 15:34:10 · answer #10 · answered by Angry-T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋