The reason i think is that i feel embarassed before them as i do'nt have beared and moustache(very little)and also my body is much different from them as i am very tall and seem to be different from them.I am also of very shy nature and this is the major drawback in my carrier.I have very big dreams to work on but these are the biggest barrier in my life.I need your consult my (yahoo7 answer's) friends.THE PROBLEM IS PHSYCOLOGICAL THAN PHYSICAL AND I CA'NT SORT IT OUT.
2007-02-02 04:56:20 · 6 answers · asked by lazzlo 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
See dear,
Just remember one thing - the one thing that rules the life is the power of thoughts and attitudes and not mere physical factors. Because the power of thought can do any thing.
There are many great leaders in the history and in todays world who are ugly or short or tall or no beard or no proper hair style or limb ... but it is their mental power which has brought laurels from millions of people.
If you shy, are you going to get anything ! If you fear are you enjoying any thing ? when you need to do any thing , just do with courage. Just stop thinking any waste and just focus on your goal. Do not see too much about others or dont too much bother how others are seeing you, just make your vision clear to progress ahead to reach your goal.
First sit in silence to set your goal and prepare step by step action goal. Remember that your education, your caliber, your specialities are only going to help you in future but not anything ... so just indulge into the efforts rather than just pass the time in false feelings and moods.
be loveful to God and raise your chin to march ahead and do sincere efforts .... success is in your way
2007-02-02 05:08:20 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just cause they have beares and moustaches does not mean that you are any different, you may just be shy or you could of been teased when you were a child and have low self esteen, there are those that just can not get up infront of a room of people, be they your friends or teachers.
2007-02-02 13:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by Ladyofathousandfaces 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well: see effort would take alot of time yes ! as yourself can face
an good "Trust" just by having great "Knowlage & Talk with Parents " that way they will help out so you'd need some advices
or best yet attend "Group Counsciling" ok?
2007-02-02 13:21:19 · answer #3 · answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being tall it is not problem.
if you have inner confidance than you looks active and attractive among of them.
according to survey girls choose long men compare to short.
everyone has no height people are eager to get height so try to evaluate it.
admire what thing you have.
life is colorful like painting so dont keep to try to make it blank paint it with different colors....
2007-02-03 00:45:02 · answer #4 · answered by chirag_smilever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your problem is little psychological and little physiological. start drinking Noni herbal fruit juice which will improve both your problems.
2007-02-03 01:27:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAVE PATIENCE,CONFIDENCE AND STRENGTH
HAVE FAITH AND WISDOM
NO STRESS OR TENSION
NO FEAR IN LIFE WHEN U R RIGHT & GENUINE@@!!!
2007-02-02 13:46:06 · answer #6 · answered by jeeta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋