I have been with my bf for 2.5 yrs, living together. He tells me he loves me all the time, and that he cant wait for me to be his wife,which we have talked about, keep in mind i dont even have and engagement ring yet. We do work at the same place - i got him the job,we use my truck to and from work (he does not have one), "together all the time" but here is what i need help with, very seldom (once every 3 to 4 months)do we make love or even have sex (not that i dont try for more) and when it does happen its like he is not there, we do not have the conversations we used to either, does he still love me or am i now a convenience?
2007-02-02 04:52:27 · 8 answers · asked by Holly T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is a comfort thing not a convenience. If you want more sex or feel there is a problem just talk to him about it. Communication is key. Maybe try and spice things up a little. It is difficult when you get into a routine in life. Maybe his sex drive isn't what it use to be either. Ask him what is going on maybe something is bothering him. He says he cares and talks about your future together so there is feeling there. You really just need to talk to him and open up on how you are feeling.
2007-02-02 05:06:36 · answer #1 · answered by fallenangelf99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves you, just not as much as he use to. He's probably used to you being around and having sex with you and he's just wanting something different. I would keep an eye on him if i was you.
2007-02-02 12:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by Ryan B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MMMM
THIS IS HARD!
I DONT THINK IT LOVE ANYMORE......MAYBE IT CAN BE THAT YOU HAVE BECOME A CONVINIENCE OR A ROUTINE.....FIGHT FOR IT IF ITS WORTH IT...SPICE IT UP A LITTLE AND BY THAT I MEAN EVERYTHING BE THE CHASE AGAIN..IF IT STILL CONTINUES THAN MAYBE ITS TIME TO RE-EVALUATE WHAT YOU HAVE.
2007-02-02 13:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by A. RMZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry babe...sounds like he thinks you are just a convenience.
2007-02-02 12:56:09 · answer #4 · answered by wbyrdie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 TO 4 MONTHS?? something is wrong, definitely
2007-02-02 12:55:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is put romance back into the relationship, he still loves you but somewhere the romance faded away and now you need it back
2007-02-02 12:56:29 · answer #6 · answered by IisIam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry sweety but it seems like he's just using you for all you've got
2007-02-02 12:56:20 · answer #7 · answered by B2B2008 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the chump.
2007-02-02 12:55:30 · answer #8 · answered by thewolf2275 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋