well my sister is living with my cusin. my cusin has a duaghter whos 13,and ever since my sister moved over there my cusin has been blaming her of everything her duaghter those. if she skips she says is becuase of my sister. she resently lost her virginity and my cusin blamed my sister also. what advice can u give me on what my sister should do or say?
2007-02-02 04:50:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Placing blame in the wrong place never changed anything.
Your cousin is in denial.
Here's the line:
If blaming me for what happened will fix it for you, go right ahead.
You will find out soon enough that it did not really fix anything.
2007-02-02 04:56:06 · answer #1 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your cousin needs to sit down with her daughter and get the facts. blaming someone else for losing their virginity is crazy, your sister did not open your cousins daughters legs. but that is besides the point. you should tell your sister, depending on how old she is, to try to find somewhere else to go. or have a pow wow with the whole family and get the lies straight. if the problems don't stop, the best bet for you sister is to get out of there, she doesn't need that kind of abuse. its wrong what your cousin is doing. good luck
2007-02-02 12:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by deeshair 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to move out. My grandmother told me once the i was the reason that my older brothers and sister are messed up. I was the first child after the divorce. I told her to go to hell. that i can not be their escape goat. I think your sister needs to get her own place.
2007-02-02 12:58:35 · answer #3 · answered by greentigereyeddragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your aunt is blaming your sister for everything, I doubt that her telling your aunt that it isn't her fault is going to change anything. It might be best for one of your parents to talk to your aunt and let her know that her daughter is making her own choices, good or bad, and that they cannot all be blamed on your sister.
2007-02-02 12:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by slknspphr3645 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She should go back home and be with her mother. The situation wont change because blood is thicker then water.She will always beleive her daughter over your sister.
2007-02-02 18:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since I don't understand why your sister is living with your cousin instead of you. I guess I can only say. she will have to blow it off and if the mother can't control her 13 year old that is her problem.
2007-02-02 12:55:04 · answer #6 · answered by Shelly t 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your cousins daughter needs to fess up to her mom. your cousin needs to realize that her daughter and is old enough to be respnosible for her own actions. you sister is not responsible for her actions
2007-02-02 12:55:54 · answer #7 · answered by tameka r 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋