there is this girl named ashley my cuzin was tryin to set us down but i got 2 scared she told my cuzin that if i didn't talk to her today then i can't get wit her so i need to know what to say and how 2 say it should i go by text message call her or in person please help me!!!
2007-02-02 04:44:16 · 20 answers · asked by Jay-C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just go for it however you want. By your avatar I will assume you are black. If this is the case you are likely surrounded by a bunch of fake thugs who talk about running game and all that other nonsense. Now they got you thinking you need an opening line. You do not need any of those things. Just keep it real for real, be who you feel. When we were younger my cousin used to get all the chicks. He knew how to spit game and play all the roles the ghetto assigned him. Now he is 27 and he still messes with high school girls because no grown woman is tryna hear what he is talking. So if all you want is little girls spit game, you want to grow up get women and get over your shyness, be who you feel you are.
2007-02-02 04:50:02 · answer #1 · answered by Immortal Cordova 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey there! let me tell you something, you should never worry if that girl never talk to you but you need to talk to her in person and let her see who you really are, let her know that you were indeed shy and you got kinda scared that's why you acted like that. As a matter of fact some woman finds that very attractive believe it or not and a real woman would never turn a guy down because he's shy. If for some reason she doesn't appreciate your shyness and turn you down, don't let that get to you because a real person helps you get through it rather than turn you down, plus I promise you someone will come around who appreciates it if she doesn't.
2007-02-02 05:02:45 · answer #2 · answered by jamrock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i was actually in the same situation as you not very long ago there is no need to be scared my boy she is only a girl just tree to think of her as one of ur mates to help u over come the shyness yopu face in his peroid of time i would phone her person to person cos u will never get over ur shyness properly if u text her whos knows ur relationship might go well just folllow my advice in this world of ipods and PS3's we know there is a place to turn to for guidance.
2007-02-02 04:50:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shyness is generally connected to a fear of rejection, or embarrassment. Do you think this girl will reject you? Doesn't sound like it. You have to make a move. You don't have to ask her out. You don't have to try to look down her shirt. You don't have to marry her. Put all that down the road stuff away. Calling her is best. Talk about the weekend. Talk about the weather. Just talk.
2007-02-02 04:50:12 · answer #4 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2015-09-25 17:38:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you continue to be shy she will miss out on allot of fun in your life. I have been shy all my life & realized they no good comes from it.
Call her if she's interested she'll answer but if not then there is so many other women you can meet. Just be careful there are some bad ones too.
2007-02-02 04:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by castillo5247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be shy.... Make person to person conversation. Or by calling... Dont text... Just make regular conversations. It all depends on how much you know about eachother. If you dont know much, ask were she was born, if she has any siblings, ect. It also depends on how old you guys are... If you are 13 or whatever... Dont worry about dating right now... Concentrate on being a kid having fun and enjoying life. Good Luck
2007-02-02 04:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by hollie_c_sharp64012 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personaly I would Go in person and sometimes you've got grit your and stand up to what your afraid of.
2007-02-02 04:49:04 · answer #8 · answered by zerowerty 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ikow its hard but try to ask her in person.Because girls tend to like you better if you do. She'll think its much better than some stupid text message. plus she'll respact you a little more.
2007-02-02 04:48:59 · answer #9 · answered by ace 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am shy at sometimes to.
but just think about it, do you realy give a care of what they think of you?
youll never get to know them if you dont try,.
hope i help.
you can ask me more questions on email if you want.
-Brooke
2007-02-02 04:48:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋