My boyfriend dumped me after 5 years for another girl i want him back but i want him to ask me back how do i make this happen i dont want him to know i still like him though uh help please
2007-02-02 04:36:32 · 28 answers · asked by Coconuts 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl if he dumped you after 5 years for another girl... he's not worth it... Sounds like you are better without him!!!
2007-02-02 04:41:15 · answer #1 · answered by Becca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want a man back who dumped you for another woman after 5 years? Move on, girl.
2007-02-02 12:40:35 · answer #2 · answered by ldgbt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 years is a long time for him just to pick up and break it off. In a relationship this long it is usually a sign of other problems in the relationship. Otherwise, it seems strange on how he can just leave this way, other girl or not. But I guess it has been known to happen. My advice to you would be to grant his wish and give him his freedom. Whenever a person finds themselves wanting to be free it is understandable how their partner would panic, cry and beg for them to stay. This usually has the opposite effect and only drives the other person even farther away. As difficult as it may be to do, you must open the door and set him free. Then you have to convince him that his freedom is secure by not calling him or contacting him in any way. Usually what happens when this is done is that he will start to wonder about you, be amazed and admire you for your strength, he will even start to question if he really does want to be free after all. Eventually he will begin to regain respect for you. His girlfriend will not look so appealing because his admiration for you will begin to grow. All of this takes time, and you will be hurting, it is not easy. But in the long run, even if you never get him back, you will come out the better person. Trust me on this one. Good luck to you!
2007-02-02 13:12:53 · answer #3 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally understand you because I have been there before, but really, Why do you want a guy that dumped you for another girl back with you? Honey, he isn´t worth it find comeone who won´t do that to you, and besides let me tell you something, the more you go after him, the more he will run, If he loves you he will come after you, and that is what you want because HE dumped you and you want to get him back? NONONONO, and believe me there ane far much better guys out there just gve yourself a chance I know it´s hard but leave him behind he was bad to you, you didn´t deserved to be dumped after 5 years for another girl, so honey just let him go!!
2007-02-02 12:43:08 · answer #4 · answered by Katiegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u want him back and ur 100% sure that you do and want no one but him make him jealous go out with other guys an make sure he knows about it show him that he doesnt matter to u an that u can move on just as easily as he can soon he'll start to wonder if he made the right decision show him that he was wrong to dump u and what he doesnt have anymore
2007-02-02 12:46:20 · answer #5 · answered by *~*~Julie~*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T.
He knows what he had with you and he doesn't want it anymore. Even if you still want him, he doesn't want you. He's not going to ask you to come back. It will not be like it was before and you can't chase the past. You need to start looking for the guy who will appreciate you and what you have to offer. Good luck.
2007-02-02 12:40:59 · answer #6 · answered by RangerEsq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget bout him nd move on!!! if he dumped u 4 another girl after 5 years, then he's not worth it. u can find sum1 better. he's not worth it. but do whatever u want, cuz its ur decision. good luck
2007-02-02 13:21:36 · answer #7 · answered by Khadi3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wanted you the same way you want him he wouldn't have dumped you, after 5 years you really need to get over it seriously.
2007-02-02 12:39:46 · answer #8 · answered by madtyga2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but this is really silly! i feel for you tho...I'm sorry you guys broke up but how do you expect him to ask you back while he's with someone else and without knowing that you want him. i know your heart is broken but be realistic about it! if he dumped you for someone else, move on! i dont even know why you would want him back. it's his loss not yours!
2007-02-02 12:42:17 · answer #9 · answered by girlwiththegoodies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? he dumped you for another chick, you want to break them up so he will ask you out again, and you don't want him to find out? That's completely mental. Find another bf.
2007-02-02 12:40:52 · answer #10 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋