i think i am bisexual although i am 14 i have fancied 3 girl teachers and had an eye on 1 and i have fancied 2 boy teachers! does this make me more gay that bisexual? and i dont even think i am gay or bi in the first place?!?! confooooooooosed plus 1 of the girl teachers keeps on coming over to me and stuff like that to show interest in me and 1 allways stares at me! and 1 of the boy teachers is best friends wi someone in my family!
2007-02-02 04:29:13 · 24 answers · asked by <3 skittles <3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have a 14 year old daughter who goes through a lot of the same questions. I think that at your age there is no reason to make a decision on "what" you are. It is normal to be attracted to a variety of people for different reasons when you are young. As you get older things will become more clear for you but don't fret.....enjoy whoever or whatever you become.
2007-02-02 04:46:32 · answer #1 · answered by slknspphr3645 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Haha, whoever that guy is who said that being bisexual instead of gay is accepted by organized religions is crazy. Being bisexual means, in essence, being half homosexual -- how is that different?
That being said, I don't agree with organized religions that frown upon homosexuality. People should live their own lives so long as they aren't hurting others.
Okay, now back to the question. The fact that you happen to like three female teachers as opposed to two male teachers just means that there's more than likely a higher ratio of hot women at your school. How can you base your sexuality on happenstance? It's not a game of numbers. If that were the case and you thought you were straight, you would have to like every single guy in the world.
Besides the fact that a relationship with your teachers would be inappropriate, the fact that THEY stare at you doesn't have any bearing on your sexual orientation. That's like saying that your a sailor because a navy captain looked at you.
Come on now, this is a little bit more than just being naive. It sounds like you want someone to label you so that you'll feel better about yourself.
Just live your life and see what happens. There is no right or wrong answer in this case -- you'll have to figure it out.
2007-02-02 13:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by dorifto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you just want some attention. Have you had sex? Do you think about having sex? Just because someone shows interest in you doesn't mean that they want to have sex with you!
Wait until you are older and in a couple of years you will know what your desires really are.
If you find you are bisexual and desire both sexes equally then you will need to be honest with the male or female you have a relationship with. I know a bisexual girl and she was honest with her man now she has a husband and a girl friend. Lucky him he has two women! So don't worry either way it will be fine. Just give it a couple years.
2007-02-02 12:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by bigh5586 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are 14 and you are in a period of sexual confusion but you if you think Ur a Bisexual then i would become one because if Ur christian Islam or Jewish being gay is against religion how ever being a bi is allowed so i would be a bisexual cos then you would not have to decided what you would want to be it's ok just don't worry.
2007-02-02 12:42:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like both your probably bi, if you like just girls your lesbian, if just males you straight. but, wait till your older, 14 isnt really a good age to decide sexuality, 15 or 16 is actually better but wait until you have a crush on someone your age and not a teacher... also... teachers shouldnt be looking at you in anyway other than a pupil.... i'd be worried...
2007-02-02 12:53:44 · answer #5 · answered by ~Big_potatoes_have_big_eyes~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up little girl! Find someone your own age. You are most likely misinterpreting your teachers so called "interest".
You have a long time to figure it out. Good luck.
2007-02-02 12:42:29 · answer #6 · answered by snowwhite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree find someone your own age, and even if you find another female attractive it don't make you gay or bi. When you have feelings for them such as sexual or emotional feelings such as love you would feel for a boyfriend then your going the way of gay or bi.
2007-02-02 12:35:04 · answer #7 · answered by Zomg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOD !!!
you are 14 - i didnt even know what gay meant when i was 14
please concentrate on your studies rather than your sexual preferences - coz believe me you - you will be doing the latter for the rest of your life !!
good luck and hope you take my advise as good meaning, rather than getting offended.
and pls stop eyeing your teachers - such a bad idea.
2007-02-02 13:38:14 · answer #8 · answered by GorGeous_Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly bi... if so its not immoral... you just double your pulling chances...
Plus can have lots of fun with boys when you snog girls and they get all excited...
Best not do stuff with teachers . If something happens when you are in 6th form I would be cool but others would not....
2007-02-02 13:17:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you're only 14. You might well be hetrosexual! It's not uncommon for teens to fantasise about people of the same sex. It's sounds cliched, but you'll soon know who you are as you get older, and discover more about relationships and sex. You'll soon know what your preferences are.
2007-02-02 12:34:46 · answer #10 · answered by Minky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋