how is it that the guys who actually like me are not what im lookng for, or are too close of friends with and then the ones that I like want nothing to do with me?? Is it me or am I just being picky? I mean, I kinda have to be b/c the guy I want isn't anywhere to be found... I want him to just come right up to me, hold both sides of my face and kiss me in the most romantic way I could possibly think of!!!!! If he's out there, tell him im looking for him!!
2007-02-02 04:23:52 · 12 answers · asked by goddess♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Q:Is it me? A: Yes
Q: Am i being picky? A:Not picky, just unrealistic.
Q:Is that bad? A: Not necessarily. Just manage your expectations.
Q:I just want whats best for me!? A: Don't we all? That may be part of the problem. In a real relationship, you also want what's best for BOTH of you.
Gut check: You say you want the big romantic kiss. A lot of girls do. But could it be that you have a lot of other requirements, too? Like confident, GOOD-LOOKING, sensitive, and so on? Have you ever rejected anyone in an unkind way? Perhaps the one you are looking for lacks some confidence, maybe because he's afraid of getting rejected like so-and-so was. Decide on what really counts. A lot of guys who have a lot of swagger and confidence up front may really be shallow in the long run. Start looking deeper at some of the guys around you. Guys aren't wired for romance. If you want that romance, you are going to have to pick a guy with potential, and build him up.
Behind every great man is a great woman.
2007-02-02 04:56:55 · answer #1 · answered by Capt. Obvious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, every girl has a dream of finding the perfect guy. Unfortunately it doesn't always happen the way that you want it to. I don't think you're being too picky, because a girl has to like something about the guy she's with... but don't expect a fairy tale romance. It happens sometimes, but it's few and far between.. not to mention, most new relationships have the "thrill" in the beginning, and it slowly beings to die away after a little while. It doesn't mean he isn't the right one.. it just means you need to do something to "spice" up the relationship again. If you can find a guy who is nice to you and genuinely cares about your feeling, and you aren't too shallow to realize his feelings.. then that may be your shining prince. Who can't resist a guy who adores you?
2007-02-02 04:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. Being picky is not bad, you should never settle for someone just because they happen to be there. Just don't be so picky that you miss out on someone that might not be exactly what you were looking for. You should always give someone a chance.
2007-02-02 04:28:07 · answer #3 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay let me tell you i have been there i thought there was never going to be a guy to meet my standards until one of my guy friends admitted he liked me i thought there is no way we could date well one night he kissed me and then it started i still tryed to push it away because we were friends i thought well we will go out for a while and i will get tired of him but i havent yet i love him with all my heart and soul so be patient the person you want might be right in front of you you just dont know it yet (we were friends for 5 years)
2007-02-02 04:35:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Too close of friends? Your significant other should be your BEST friend. You are being picky. What you want to happen will never happen. Just live your life, have fun with those around you, and don't concentrate so much on a "prince charming" fairy tale.
2007-02-02 04:27:49 · answer #5 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are wise to be picky-one smart cookie. I am so picky that he would just have to be a real Prince. Ha Ha
2007-02-02 04:29:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'll forward this to the proper avenues. In the mean while you may have to either setlle on being an old maid, or take some initiative on the guys you want.
2007-02-02 04:27:09 · answer #7 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
just keep up your hopes because you going to meet the right person that you will spend the rest of your life with and you sure will be very happy
2007-02-02 04:29:37 · answer #8 · answered by harold g 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
*Comes right up to you, hold both sides of your face and kiss you in the most romantic way you could possibly think of!!!!!*
Hi there, Honey.
Did you miss me?
:-)
2007-02-02 04:32:56 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Picky is good..
Don't settle for second best...
But don't play so hard to get that you wind up empty handed...
2007-02-02 04:27:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋