How can I get a girlfriend?

Question

What's up? I am single. I always like the high school girls with blonde hair. How can I get a girlfriend if I am nervous? How can I break it off?!!

Garrett

Answer 1

start trying to start conversations with girls. then if you find a girl you like keep on talking to her. then ask her and maybe some friends to go out somewhere.

Answer 2

If your not in high school, chances are it is a little harder to get chicks from there.. lol

If you are, its not that hard. The worst that can happen is a girl says no and you get turned down... big deal! You keep going until you find the right one you like and can get along with easily.

Being nervous gets you nowhere.. trust me, been there and done that. Sometimes it makes you look like an idiot because you can detect nervousness on some people by the way they act.. some people scratch the back of their head while talking to a person who makes them nervous and some stutter or even twitch. I would suggest finding techniques that calm you down before you approach girls.. Learn how to flirt and joke around and just have fun while your doing it!

Answer 3

You are going to have a VERY hard time if you are nervous. My advice is that you try to get over it. I used to be the same way. I found that if you just think about girls as they are, which is girls, instead of some amazing thing that is so hard to obtain, then you won't be so nervous. Girls are just like guys as in we are both people. If you like a girl the first thing you should do is try to talk to her casually. Don't get nervous because you will convince yourself that she is a friend and I am just trying to find out what she is like. Be friendly and get to know her. Once you feel you two are comfortable and pretty good friends then let her know how you feel about her, unless it has changed since you got to know her and you don't like her any more. If you tell her you don't like her that probably won't make a good relationship. The worst that could happen when you get to know her is that you will find out you don't really like her personality, then it is somewhat better off you didn't get together. Just remember when you try to talk to her, it isn't like the movies where she will get upset that you are talking with her. Nobody except jerks get angry just because someone started a conversation with them. If you don't try, your chances of getting a girl are VERY slim.

Answer 4

I think relationship sare oneof the hardest thing to do. Yet for some people it is very very easy. It took me a long time to get how the game works. I had to resort to a book about body lnaguage. My friends told me it was abook about hok ups and cheap dates or that it was all bull but it turn out it worked. I am now happily married and have 2 kids.

There are many books on the subject but, I'll sumarisd the most important points for you.

1) When you go out, go out to have fun. Don't worry about wether you will find someone or not. Just go where you want to go to have a good time. When someone is having a good time other people notice and they'll want to have a good time too. This makes you more approacheable. If you did not hoked up that day then at least you had fun which is what is really important.

2) Where you go is important. The bars and dance clubs are awfull places to get a girlfriend. Girls know they wil be hit on so they can become unaproacheable. Not a good thing especially if there is competition. You are better off at other places like a ceramics class, or a yoga or some sort of friendly festival.

3) Watch your body language. If you have a negative attitude people will know. If you lok unkept people will know. So, be happy and jolly and be presentable. Look like the type of person you can easily make friends with. Look at it this way. Would you rather approach a dog who is wagging its tail or one that looks like it will eat you alive?

4) Look for signs of interest. These are hard to see sometimes. The point is that maybe Tammy is the hottest girl in town but, she may not have any interest in you so why bother. However, Jenny is always very attentive to what you have to say. Jenny sounds like a good candidate.

5) When you talk to anyone talk for the sake oftalking. Enjoy their conversation and their opinions. When you talk to a girl show genuine interest. Just don't talk to a girl because you want her. If things work out then great. If they don't then you at least make a new friend. New friend can lead to other new friends which could mean girlfriend.

6) Be respectfull towards others. treat others as you would like them to treat you. If you are mean people will be mean to you. If you have nothing nice to say then keep it to yourself. If you are having a bad day say oh i'm sorry but, I'm having a bad day. of course, say it befre you say something rude.

7) Lets say you eventualy go on a date. Well, have fun. You have to show that you are an interesting person, but, you must also show interest o that person. When you go out on a date go out to have fun. Again, if it works out then you'll get a second date. If not then you had a goodtime.

8) More on #7, when on a date take her out of her element. Some girls all they like is going to the club whee all her friends are. Bad bad move. Go somewhere else. If you go to where her friends are then she'll spend more time with them than with you. Plus if their friends don't like yu then she will not like you eiter. its called the pack mentality. The same applies to your friends. The date should be between you and her only. The idea is to get to know eachother.

Well, hope that helps a bit. Remeber, always be respecfull. Also, be patient. Like I said at the beggining, some guys can get a date like they get junk mail. Others have to work at it. Also, go with compatability rather than beauty.

Answer 5

Some people feel like they need a gf/bf. If they break up with one, they immediately find another. You dont NEED a gf. Im 14 and I've never had a boyfriend. I have had a LOT of crushes. Once I start really falling for him, I find out he's a jerk. If a girl really likes you, then you'll know. But get to know her first. She might be a sleeze bag for all you know. Bad reputations rub off on other people.

Answer 6

Well, you can try earning experience with girls that don't make you so nervous. Or just be willing to take no for an answer.

You'll need to court the girl you like, and just be brave enough to invite her out. Don't ever ask her to be your girlfriend on your first date.

And don't ask anyone to be your girlfriend before you've invited them out somewhere. By their response, you'll know if they are interested in you. If they are not interested in going out with you, your chances are that they won't be your girlfriend.

Also, don't fall in love with a girl that isn't falling in love with you.

Answer 7

What u need to do is have some confidence in yourself. Whats the worse that can happen a female turns u down no big deal more fish in the sea. Now why you seem to b asking how to hook upw it some one n then how to break up wit them seems to b the problem.

Answer 8

You don't need a girlfriend if you're already asking how to break up! Do you just want a girl because your friends have? Just chat with girls naturally - don't think it always has to wind up with her being your girlfriend. It takes the pressure off her too if you're just friendly.

Answer 9

If you are already wanting to break it off and don't have a girl friend then you don't need one. When you get a girl and break up do it carefully then stay the Heck away from her.

Answer 10

srry bro i aint blonde. but i think 2 talk 2 a guy a girl must need 2 spend money on hair color(dont mind pls ciz hair color part is a joke. srry). go 4 d girl u like d best.