so he can last longer? I'm getting frustrated, we only have sex once a wk if so often, and it doesn't last.
2007-02-02 04:17:12 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Come again?
2007-02-02 04:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by lunatic 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Try having it more, to build stamina. Or try adding more foreplay and kissing before just getting right down to business. The drugs they have out there, have so many side affects and are not very healthy. He's very excited by you, and thats a good thing! Try having sex a few more times a week if you can then maybe he'll last longer.
2007-02-02 12:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by Needstoknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oooo, bless your heart! He needs to practice "not coming" for a while. When you are doing the deed and he feels he's about to come, stop and gently squeeze the base of his *p* by making a ring with your fingers. When the moment passes, begin again. Keep this up a couple of times, and he should be able to last longer in a few weeks.
By the way, MARRIED sex is so much better! Try it!
2007-02-02 12:22:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the way my boyfriend is but the thing is that he's 26 and im 20 but the way to him to last a bit longer try to relax him because all they are thinking about is how to please you and it's about to be 2 years for us also on march 12 C/S he has to keep his mind on something else thinking about sex will make him *** sooner but he has to think in his mind that he is riding a bicycle or tell him to count to 100 very slowly that's the only way he can last a bit longer. That works alot of times for me. It's weird!
2007-02-02 12:27:19 · answer #4 · answered by Elizabeth O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are various things to do. First is he aware of your concerns? He can do things on his own to increase his stamina.
Easiest thing is condoms for the most part will decrease sensitivty, in addition frequently switching positions normally helps. Ask him to break a few minutes in and go back to foreplay, that will let his body excitement back down a bit so he can last longer. Good luck!
2007-02-02 12:21:43 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to slow down, make it last longer! There is a cream he can put on his johnson, it's called Mr. Prolong. This will make him go about 20 minutes longer. he may not like using it, but it's better than not having any sex at all!! You might have to re-enforce this, when telling him!!!
2007-02-02 12:25:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many men who last less than 3 mins! Don't worry about him ejaculating in 5 mins. One way to delay it is by making him wear a ******** ( a vibrating ******** does the trick while it stimulates you too!), & try squeezing his balls as he is about to come, and have sex more often. Worse comes to worse, make him think of sheep to stop him ejaculating!
2007-02-02 12:30:42 · answer #7 · answered by cane_my_bottom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy thats..... ummm.... hmmm. I just read a letter like that from a one-pump-wonder on another website. They advised him to "rub one out" about an hour before being with his girl.Makes sense. I think they also make some kind of desensitizing stuff for guys too. Google it. Under what I don't know. ....Yeah I just checked under "pen s desensitizer-theres a ton."
2007-02-02 12:25:42 · answer #8 · answered by Mike Oxard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a Kama Sutra cream that desensitizes the penis and helps men last longer. It comes in many flavors too...
http://kamasutra.com/prod_detail.php?prod_id=148&cat_id=55
2007-02-02 12:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to learn to control himself - it would last longer if he cared enough to learn control. Some guys are selfish and refuse to make an effort since they are going to get what they want no matter what.
2007-02-02 12:21:29 · answer #10 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex everyday, he will last longer. You have the poor guy waiting for a week, so he "goes" quickly.
2007-02-02 12:20:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋