ok so my boyfriend isnt a virgin but i am and he thinks im not too and i know he would never presure me into sleepin with him so thats not why im writing this i just dont want him to think im not so he will think im goin to...i dont how or if i should tell him am a virgin and who ever told him i wasnt is wrong... how do i do this??
2007-02-02 04:08:53 · 22 answers · asked by PhotographyGirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is the right kind of boyfriend, I would tell him straight out that you are a virgin, and prefer saving yourself until you are married to have sex. If he doesn't respect you for that, find a new boyfriend that will. There is no way to prove to him that you are a virgin without losing your virginity. It all depends on your values.
2007-02-02 04:17:49 · answer #1 · answered by philosopher_adviser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better tell him because he will find out anyways when you first do it. The first time for a girl is always obvious because it's completely new and you have no idea what to expect, what to do, or how it will feel and you will be so tense that he will just know.
Just be upfront and honest about it and it will make the experience much more pleasurable when it does happen so that he knows to take it easy and not hurt you by accident.
If anything he should respect that fact you are still a virgin!
Good luck and remember to relax your muscles!!!!
2007-02-02 12:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by portjeff143 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he's your bf you shouldnt feel too weird having that conversation with him. just pick a moment when your both alone hanging out and tell him that you are a virgin. sometimes the best way, if you dont know how to say it, its just to come out with it. if he really cares he'll be ok with it. if he doesnt seem to like it that much is because he expects to have sex with you soon and he knows that you being a virgin will make that difficult, in which case it would means that he likes you more physically than emotionally. then you'll have to decide whether to continue the relationship or not. good luck!
2007-02-02 12:15:21 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should just be truthfull with him. Tell him that you are and if he doesnt love you enough to want to be with someone who isnt a virgin he's a dick. It's just like if he breaks up with you for not sleeping with him. Just tell him the truth.
2007-02-02 12:14:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm kind of confussed wit da question but you know you cnan jus tell himm dat you are still a virgin adn you dont plan on changin dat any time soon and dat you know dat he is not a virgin which most boys are not and that maybe dat will be a problem for him and what he thinks
2007-02-02 12:13:57 · answer #5 · answered by Mz. Kitkat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest, because in the end everything comes back and bites you, ifhe finds out you are a virgin then he'll be mad at you for lying to him, and if you dont tell him and sleep with him, you'll feel bad...why would you lie about that anyways, you should be proud of it :)
2007-02-02 12:12:21 · answer #6 · answered by laizabecker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he ever asks tell him the truth. If you ever told him you are not then you need to tell him you are. Just be honest with him. Its not a big deal and he would probably be more happy if he knew you were one.
2007-02-02 12:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by Tim VP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use your words, try this---"Honey, Im A Virgin"- and he'll say "Awesome, thats great cuz now i know you dont have clamidia, cuz that Sh!ts everywhere"
2007-02-02 12:13:18 · answer #8 · answered by Bennett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. Just tell him you want to talk to him about something kind of important that may affect your relationship but you think he should know.
2007-02-02 12:20:06 · answer #9 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to just be honest with him and tell him that you're a virgin.....part of being in a relationship is being able to talk honestly with your boyfriend....so start now.....
2007-02-02 12:23:23 · answer #10 · answered by Mum3grls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋