I told a good friend that if our friendship keeps growing I am considering asking her out. She sent back an email that said:
well, as to where I stand, it's pretty much as always - I want to be friends, and our friendship to grow, and be good friends - but at this point i can't see anything else. I haven't heard God nudging me, or calling me to go further, so right now I am just really hoping that things won't come between us being friends, and that we'll still be able to have the fun we've always had together. I would really be sad if you started distancing yourself from me and our friendship broke up - so I really hope that won't happen!
2007-02-02 04:04:35 · 24 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She wants only to be your friend.
2007-02-02 04:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by Creampoof737 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to respect the girl for being honest with you, despite how you feel toward her. I know it sucks when the other person doesn't like you back the same way as you like them, but don't dwell on it and move on. Keep your friendship with this girl as sometimes friendships last more than relationships! I could say she may change her mind down the road, but right now you have to accept the fact that she only wants to be friends. Don't hold anything against her for that. She obviously loves you as a friend as she made it clear that she would be said if you started acting differently toward her. Sometimes what we want is not necessarily what we get. Life sucks that way. Good luck to you.
2007-02-02 04:09:27 · answer #2 · answered by portjeff143 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately she’s letting you down the best way she knows how. She’s telling you that she only wants to be a friend to you, even a very good friend but nothing more. She doesn’t want to hurt you and doesn’t want your friendship to be lost because she doesn’t have the same feelings that you have towards her. Your friend doesn’t want to date you, or be considered your girlfriend. Don't mess up a good friend behind her not wanting to be more than just your friend.
2007-02-02 04:15:26 · answer #3 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that she doesn't want to ruin a friendship. She's happy just being your friend. She's worried that if she persued a relationship with you, she might lose you as a friend if you were to break up.
Also, she is strong in her faith. She is trying to do what God feels is right for her. Like she said, she doesn't feel like God wants you to be more than friends.
Just be friends for now. If God does want it to happen eventually, it will happen. Just be good to each other now. :)
2007-02-02 04:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by New mommy 2010! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is saying that she doesnt want to lose your friendship by you trying to turn it into a romance. She is saying she doesnt want a romance with you. She is saying that if you push the romance angle the friendship is in grave danger. She thinks that if she declines on the romance you will back away from her as a friend and she doesnt want that.
You men can be so dense sometimes !!!!!!!
2007-02-02 04:12:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your girl sounds like she doesn't want anything to get in the way of your friendship. she's worried that if you start going out then break up it'll ruin your friendship and she doesn't want that. she must like you a lot but is shy or afraid. give her time to think before you ask her. if you do (ask her out) make sure your clear that your friendship is strong and that nothing will ruin it.
2007-02-02 04:12:14 · answer #6 · answered by huhyftcgbjhu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means just what she said. BUT, women work in mysterious ways, ways we don't even understand. Sounds like she TRULY values your friendship, but is probably not attracted to you. Love grows in strange ways. Just hang in there. I'm not lying when I say that you do still have a chance. Don't give up just yet.
2007-02-02 04:15:36 · answer #7 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just friends FOR NOW. hold on, when its time u´ll notice n then ya ask her out. but did u know that friends is one of the things u need more in a life, so with one date ya sometime can mess up the hold friendship so juz stay friend for now!
2007-02-02 04:12:14 · answer #8 · answered by angel_ashbal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is not interested in going further than a friendship. Perhaps she is afraid that if the relationship turns sour,the friendship will end.Maybe she needs more time...
2007-02-02 05:28:55 · answer #9 · answered by equinoxe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just wants to be friends and she hopes that your feelings for more wont get in the way of that
2007-02-02 04:09:29 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Lin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She feels more comfortable being a friend, however one fine day she may decide to go out with you. Don't pressure her,show you're comfortable even by just being a friend
2007-02-02 04:14:52 · answer #11 · answered by t_|_n_A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋