He moved out and his excuse is that he is just chilling by himself. He wont even have sex with me he says he just cant do it right now?
2007-02-02 04:01:11 · 19 answers · asked by abhudsonj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems like he doesn't really care about you, so stop worrying about his behavior and move on.
2007-02-02 04:04:58 · answer #1 · answered by Creampoof737 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Aw, that really sucks. I'm engaged too and I would be so confused if that happened to me. Honestly, there are a few things that it could be. He could have had or be having a fling with someone else. He could also be getting cold feet about the wedding. He might also be having some self esteem issues. You should really try talking to him calmy. Tell him how you feel. He might come around eventually. Until then you have two options: wait for him, keep talking to him regularly, take a break...or move on (I know that will be hard). If he can't be man enough to tell you what is going on, instead of leaving you hangin then maybe you should move on. It is completely up to you. I say this all of the time, but trust you heart and follow it through your life. Make the right decision for you so that you don't have any regrets later. Sorry to hear about your situation. Good luck girl!
2007-02-02 04:14:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This ex-fiancee' of yours is an emotional coward, who prefers running away rather than giving you an honest explanation. If he were a real MAN, you would have gotten one. This B-O-Y is not ready to get married, so he ran away from the whole thing, as most little boys tend to do when they get into trouble. Sorry to say it, but he probably ran right into some other girl's pants, too, the little creep. I'm sorry, that had to hurt, but you need to hear it. Get yourself free of this, don't even talk to him anymore. Cut off all ties, listen to no lies, and if he ever comes crawling back, hand him his hat, because he is not worthy of you!! You will find a better person to share your life with. I'm so sorry you are hurt!
2007-02-02 09:21:08 · answer #3 · answered by josephine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you freak out and jump to conclusions talk to him. He may have things going on that you don't know about. He may be feeling things now that you're engaged. Take it one day at a time and don't think the worse without having proof. Talk to him and during the conversation ask him if he still plans to marry you or does he want the ring back. Hold your head up and just go on. Don't let this get you down. Hope for the best but be prepared for the worse. I wish you the best with your situation.
2007-02-02 04:09:01 · answer #4 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well start calling him your ex because he is not treating you like a lady.I think any reason why, is enough reason to put him aside and make room for another suiter.Be cool you'll survive, the next adventure is just right around the corner.I really think he is a lost cause.Peace
2007-02-02 04:08:06 · answer #5 · answered by walter_nahbexie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being that he's your fiancee its probably pressure thats getting to him. And if he feels marriage wouldnt be right at this time then he probably feels sex would just lead you on. I know some men are dogs but some put feelings before sex
2007-02-02 04:04:51 · answer #6 · answered by Mike B 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Moved out? Guess you 2 were shacking up before marriage....big mistake. Let him see what life is like without you on a daily basis and without you snuggling in bed together. Bet he will miss you. Continue to date and have fun with him without the other "living together" pressures. He may change his mind.
Good luck.
2007-02-02 04:10:57 · answer #7 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be a reason. But normally when guy make up his mind he will not want to talk about it again. Let him alone for some time to cool down. After a week meet him to disucss again.
2007-02-02 04:34:42 · answer #8 · answered by Blue Rain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but he changed his mind. Any guy that decides to turn of the sex is probably getting it somewhere else.
2007-02-02 04:05:11 · answer #9 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't remember the last time someone told me they were "chilling".
He got cold feet, found another woman, and you have been kicked to the curb. He is a jerk.
2007-02-02 04:09:16 · answer #10 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was either cheating, has realized he doesn't want a relationship. Whatever the reason, he is definately a jerk and I would definately cease all communication with this guy.
2007-02-02 04:05:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋