What is a creative way to tell someone on valentines day that your totally in love with them without risking to lose your friendship..
2007-02-02 04:00:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him a Valentine that says "Love or Friends? Which do you want?" only do it naked.
2007-02-02 04:03:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough one, since once the cat is out of the bag... Still, I think it's worth the risk. You don't want to look back with a regret like that! Also, a true friend will show some understanding here even if they don't share your feelings.
So how to do it? I'm not sure face to face is best on this one. Give the other person an easy out if they don't feel the same. Maybe a special invitation to dinner. Tell them you want to spend this most special day with the person who is most special, etc. and ask them to show if they feel the same. Something like that. Yeah, you risk getting stood up, but it gives the other person some time to adjust to the idea, think it over and determine how they want to respond. Good luck!
2007-02-02 04:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by danl747 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad bad idea. Better to let him be the first one to say where the relationship is going. Hard to do I know. Guys are easily scared off since they hardly know what they want or are feeling. Enjoy this time having him get to know you and you him. Just keep being the sweet, adorable girl that you are and one day he will wake up and discover he can't live without you. Good Luck.
2007-02-02 04:08:03 · answer #3 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something that says "be mine" on it and a card that tells them that you cant live with out them and such. then they are open to choose how they take it. if they take it as a "friend" thing you still have them as a friend. but...they may see what you are getting at. maybe not right away...but you will have placed a seed of the idea in his brain.
2007-02-02 04:06:32 · answer #4 · answered by EMMAS' CUTE_NESS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HATE VALENTINE!!
but than again I have 2 wear a red dress 4 him..lol
2007-02-02 04:03:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
he's not your boyfriend? umm... probally going up to him saying i like you a lot, see how he reacts, he may feel the same way, good luck!
2007-02-02 04:05:19 · answer #6 · answered by seasons.change.but.people.dont 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him what he would think if you told him that you loved him....then take it from there...
2007-02-02 04:03:09 · answer #7 · answered by triway hottie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋