Met guy online & for 3 months we built up a great 'phone' relationship. Sent 100's of pics so he knew what I looked like. He came down, told me he loved me but when he left, the phone calls went downhill. (he wasn't into me, right? okay, I can accept that) I call him and he tells me he's confused and maybe I should fly down there to him and see how things go. He got upset that I got flight insurance because he said that was a 'red flag' that I "wasn't into him". He stops calling, I leave him alone. Finally, I call and ask him to tell me 'what happened' with 'us.' He tells me he was disappointed that I didn't keep calling him back until I finally 'won' him back. So I tried to do that. I would call and call him. He' d return every 5th call. I realized I had to stop. After 3 months, I receive an e-mail telling me how he hope's I'm "happy for him as he's found someone" and thanks me for being so great to him. I know I was the idiot but why would a man do that? So painful to hear that!
2007-02-02 04:00:08 · 7 answers · asked by Ann 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he did that because he wants to make you jealous and try to get you to feel really bad for doing that
2007-02-02 04:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
*** reality check *** you never had a real boyfriend -- I guess an online or email message is appropriate for internet romances -- even with the phone calls, its all just artificial -- he's a guy you only met once in real life -- you were in love with an idealized "filtered" version of a person -- G/L next time around, go for real flesh and blood next time dear
2007-02-02 04:15:20 · answer #2 · answered by Zee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Ex phone BF sounds like an idiot. Good riddance to bad rubbish.
2007-02-02 04:06:39 · answer #3 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A "great phone relationship"? Is that some kind of oxymoron? A relationship requires some face time.
2007-02-02 04:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoever this guy was......he's an insensitive JERK.....be glad you're rid of him! They way he treated you was totally and completely rude. You would be smart to block is name on your e-mail and just move on!
2007-02-02 04:04:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Painful for her, but good for you. Glad to see you are finally rid of him. He seems very selfish and immature.
2007-02-02 04:03:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
mabey he still has feelings for you and trying to make u jelous!
2007-02-02 04:03:10 · answer #7 · answered by Glittergrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋