i am a girl of 14 and still dont know my sexuality yet as i am still growing and my hormones are changing! i was in one of my classed and my teacher (a woman teacher) started taking more notice of me i think this is stupid but i dont know what other people think as she started coming over to help me with my work more often when i dont even ask her to and she keeps giving me stamps for all my work even though other people have dont better! every1 recons this teacher is gay even before she started doing this! it is scaring me as i said i still aint sure about my sexuality as at the moment i am attrackted to both male and females! and if this teacher is like this does this mean i look gay my self? i don't want to confrunt people yet as i am waiting untill my hormones have settled! please help x x x
2007-02-02 03:55:58 · 8 answers · asked by <3 skittles <3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she just likes you. Maybe you're working harder. Even if she did find you attractive she has a responsibility not to express it. Please, you have your WHOLE LIFE to worry about men, women, who to sleep with and when. I strongly recommend you don't confront her, as you will both find it highly embarrassing when you have to re-count the conversation to parents teachers and school board members. Suggesting that she behaved in a way that indicated an attraction to you could damage her career. Since you are inexperienced emotionally and sexually don't you think that you might have got the wrong idea?
2007-02-02 04:04:42 · answer #1 · answered by tigerfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age you shouldn't worry to much how you feel about both males and females, you'll soon settle down. Nothing wrong with your teacher taking a shine to you, you're probably a nice quiet likable person. Your teacher cant do you any harm and at least she's not a "male". Don't worry, be a happy young girl.
2007-02-02 12:18:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've read about this before. Apparently young girls occassionaly go through a period (during their teenage years) where they may find themselves attracted to the same sex. It's nothing to worry about and is apparently perfectly normal. If worse comes to worse though and you need reassurance maybe you should talk a a school counsellor or something, but this is only if you still feel particularly uncomfortable with your situation. Best of luck.
2007-02-02 12:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't sound like the teacher has a interest in you other than class work. what's there to be confused about. You were born a girl, there is nothing on the face of this earth more beautiful than being a woman. Love yourself for what God created you to be. I am sorry that you are confused but allow yourself to develop into the woman that you are supposed to be.
2007-02-02 12:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by trey0540 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be worrying more about your education than your sexuality at this stage in your life.
2007-02-02 12:02:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to change classes or schools or maybe states
2007-02-02 12:00:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will become clear in time dont go jumpin in and telling ppl
2007-02-02 12:01:00 · answer #7 · answered by Snot Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-02-02 12:21:30 · answer #8 · answered by bristoleon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋