I have been going out with my gf for 8 months. See each other 3-4 times a week. This past week we didn’t get to see each other b/c I was away. She is a very independent person. We usually do nothing on Fri, Sat are our nights. Supposed to see her tonight though and was under the impression we would see each other tomorrow night as well. Out of the blue she tells me that I should spend Sat night with friends and that I can stay over tonight (Friday) instead. This was a shock b/c usually we do stuff on Sat. Last weekend I came over on Friday but went home b/c she likes to have one night alone. I offered not to come tonight but come tomorrow but that did not seem to go so well. She said she had no specific plans but just preferred to see me tonight instead. This is odd behavior especially with her not giving me a real good reason. She said she is still happy w/ me and she likes seeing me so I’m confused. If she really loved me wouldn’t she want to see me more?
2007-02-02 03:45:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you're seeing too much of each other, if anything. Stop chasing and stop being so available. You sound like you're at her beck and call. It's odd, people generally don't want what they can easily have. Be a bit more elusive; organise your own activities with the guys; cancel some engagement with her for a change; do your own thing.
2007-02-02 03:52:06 · answer #1 · answered by redjake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion..If she has changed the schedule with you it means she has other plans or she just wants to change the routine of things..I'd ask her which one it is..A change can be harmless but other plans may mean she has boredom in your relationship & is looking for other things to occupy her..
It sounds like you have a strong verbal communication with her so just talk to her,blunt & to the point,maybe then you can relax & decide what you want to do about it,put yourself first when it comes to the heart dude..good luck!
2007-02-02 03:54:31 · answer #2 · answered by *toona* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this doesn't sound good to me. It's possible she likes someone else.
2007-02-02 03:49:48 · answer #3 · answered by New mommy 2010! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz maybe she wants to dump you so you should ask her.......
2007-02-02 03:48:36 · answer #4 · answered by triway hottie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋