I dated this woman for a month and a half, we went to church together regularly and she was very nice. we crossed the friend line a long time ago and now she says she doesnt see me as anything more than a friend. She always said she liked me for me and that I was cute but she really wanted to change alot of things about me, my physical appearance, apt, budget, diet and style. So in reality she really didnt like me for me. Am I wrong for not wanting to be friends. She called me one time this week and I didnt answer. The last we spoke was sunday night.
2007-02-02 03:37:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my opinion she doesn't know what she wants.You must of been an easy
guy to be around and be with physically,now she wants change..You're right in assuming she doesn't like you for you or she wouldn't want you to change for her..I fit was me I'd move on..Why waste your time on someone who is contradictory & unpredictable?Find someone to appreciate you for who you really are dude. =)
2007-02-02 03:48:40 · answer #1 · answered by *toona* 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. With all the things she wanted to change she really wanted to try to change you. I think if you go to the same church. I would just be polite when I saw her. But I would not go any further than that.
2007-02-02 11:46:05 · answer #2 · answered by Janst 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not wrong at all for not wanting to be friends with her. Women should know by now that they can't change a man, no matter how hard they try.
2007-02-02 11:41:54 · answer #3 · answered by sweetmeansour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She completley cut you down as a person and made you feel like crap. Why on earth would you let someone like that around you. Don't be her friend...she is the ugly person. Not you. Ignore her.
2007-02-02 11:44:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your life and you don't like her.
End of story.
What's the question again?
2007-02-02 11:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋