There is this guy and i was told that he liked me and I like him but everytime I try to talk to him he acts like he doesn't wanna talk to me... He doesn't like talkin on the phone so he doesn't call me and I don't call him...and to make matters worse my friend is talkin to this guy they haven't known each for that long and they are already talkin bout goin with each other...when she comes and tells me stuff bout them it makes me feel so bad...i dont know wat to do can you plz help me???
2007-02-02 03:34:51 · 11 answers · asked by sns_110989 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i.... would probably stay away from this one. if he cant talk to u comfortably and he cant even talk on the phone, wat makes you think that if yall get in a relationship, that will change.? it depends on how much you like him. Make sure that your source(that he likes you) is completely correct and tellin the truth first. if that person is, than go for it and i would address to him that you like him, and see what his feelings are. Hes probly just shy ad nervous...snap him out of it!
2007-02-02 03:41:29 · answer #1 · answered by Women Pleaser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you can't talk to a person not even on a friend level, I say no way! Don't try to force it. There is a lot to a good relationship and the first and foremost is good communication. As for your friend dose she know that you like this person? I have a feeling you haven't told her that you do. Talk to her and find out her feelings about this person because honestly u might be to late. Be assertive with this guy it sounds like he wants a person that is outgoing and a little more aggressive (don't be shy, what is the worst that could happen he says no.)
2007-02-02 03:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by johnblaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on. You sound like the typical high school girl with a crush. There are plenty of guys you can flirt with so why waist your time on the one that doesn't flirt back? You are Young and obviously haven't had many relationships so do not go out there looking for Mr right because none of them will be.
2007-02-02 03:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by Tim VP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay let me tell you summthing when a guy acts like he don't want to talk to you that means he does and call him he is not going to make the first move. Does your friend know you like him she may just be doing that to make you feel bad trust me i had a friend like that.
2007-02-02 03:40:33 · answer #4 · answered by kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can do . Go for the next guy. You are either a teenager or very naive. MOve on and get over it. If he isnt giving you any attention , find one that will. It shouldn't be that hard.
2007-02-02 03:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by big stan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is shy. if he likes you this is normal behaviur. he probably thinks you don't like him or hes acting like a man and going for the next best thing. sit him down and tell him how you feel. if he says no, move on. If he says yes or acts all shy and akward your in!
p.s. loose the friend, learn from mother nature and eliminate all threats
2007-02-02 03:47:23 · answer #6 · answered by looseboy2020 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OBVIOUSLY, you were told a lie! Maybe you're into him more than he's into you. Be straight forward with him and ask him about the situation! Ask him what he wants! Tust me, you might not get the answer you want to hear, but you'll be clear on things!
2007-02-02 03:41:10 · answer #7 · answered by cmdgrrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you should probably move on. And if your friend knows that you were interested in him first and then she goes for him instead, then she's not a very good friend.
2007-02-02 03:38:14 · answer #8 · answered by Gen•X•er (I love zombies!) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That must be hard... but find someone who will talk to you. if he liked you he wouldnt be goin out with your friend... unless and dont get yur hopes up, but he might want to go out with her hoping he will get a chance to get to know YOU better... i could be wrong. But try to find someone better for you.
2007-02-02 03:45:27 · answer #9 · answered by my spill canvas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe the guys didn't want to be with you. So just get over it and find someone else for yourself and forget him. It happens sometimes when you like someone and they don't like you back or they liek someone else. So get ove rit and find someone else.
2007-02-02 03:40:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋