Ok my boyfriend is dark skin (Black)...and he wants me to have a kid from him because he think that they will come out cute because I'm very light with honey brown eyes because My mom was mixed with white and black her mom was black but light skin and her dad was white but I'm considered as black because my dad is black and I feel bad because he don't want to have kids with me just because he want to be with me and he wants to start a family with me, I feel that he just want a kid to calm as his so they can say how pretty or handsome the kid looks, shouldn't he just hope for a healthy baby right
2007-02-02 03:34:13 · 6 answers · asked by sexsired 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unless he loves you for who you are, you shouldn't be wasting your time with him, let alone having his children. Kids are great, but they're more than just good-looking assets to your name-- they are people who require all your love and care to raise. He needs to understand that, and the fact that he needs to love you, too, before he should even consider having children.
2007-02-02 03:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by janeowyn180 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont have kids until you are married. I am not sure how old you are, but parenthood is a big step. You will lose every selfish bone in your body when you have a child. Just think of having to take care of this little person 24 hours a day. It might make you want to backup a little.
2007-02-02 11:38:27 · answer #2 · answered by hank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only real reason he wants to have a baby is because of its looks? That might be most materialistic thing I have ever heard in my life. If you stay with him, be prepared for some baby mama drama.
2007-02-02 11:37:40 · answer #3 · answered by Relax Guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely, he wants either wants to have a baby with you or just wants sex. 'Because it'll be so cute' is a LINE. It's either just another way of saying "Baby I love you and I want a baby with you" or it's a way of saying "I want sex and I'll say anything to get it". Tell him to say what he means.
2007-02-02 11:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by imjustasteph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. you are bf/gf....not married....so kids are out of the question
2. wait till you are married or you will regret it
3. if he is only interested in how the kid looks...I might be looking for a new bf. cause if he only wants looks, and not healthy....what if the child comes out not like he wants...will he bolt or stay?
2007-02-02 11:39:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away from him - that is a disjointed reason to want a child with you.........it is also a red flag regarding his sense of 'self' and his esteem and pride in his heritage.
2007-02-02 11:41:42 · answer #6 · answered by sage seeker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋