This guy who i dated for 3 years, and was in love with broke up with me, treated me bad and then came back a year later and wants to date again. At this moment he is treating me ok, but not the greatest. I'm still very much in love with him. I have so many wonderful memories with him, ofcourse i have many bad memories with him, as far as how he treated me, that i can hardly forget, though i continue to try and i think it might be getting better. He is gorgeous, and is a doctor. Then there is this firefighter i had dated 4 years ago and I broke up with has come back and wants to date me and he treats me absolutely wonderful like a queen. The thing is he is not an unattractive guy, im just not personally that attracted to him, like i don't even get the urge to kiss him for some reason, but i love to spend every moment with him, bc i have so much fun with him. Which guy should I date, im so stressed out, bc I want them both in my life, but i know thats impossible.
2007-02-02 03:32:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, first of all, doctor or no doctor, the guy treats you like crap, he's not worth it. Unless you're in it for the money. Secondly, I had a guy that I liked like the firefighter you're talking about, but the thing is.... Why do you feel like you HAVE to have a boyfriend??
My honest opinion would be not date either. If this doctor is a decent person as a friend, keep him as a friend. If it would cause too many personal issues between the both of you, get rid of him. I worked as an officer at the jail for 4 years and got sick of hearing how women stayed with their men even though they would beat them continually within an inch of their life. Stay friends with the firefighter. He sounds like the perfect close guy friend and start putting your feelers out elsewhere for a personal relationship, if that is what you feel you really need.
2007-02-10 03:21:54 · answer #1 · answered by Leila Joy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the doctor. He's a jerk. Especially if you want a long term relationship. It will only get worse after marriage. Give the firefighter a chance. I was not attracted to my husband when I first met him. We got to know each other and became very good friends. I realized what wonderful person he is and fell in love with him. We have been married 27 years now, and he is my best friend still to this day.
2007-02-10 09:38:38 · answer #2 · answered by nurse ratchet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with the Firefighter be buddies and use the Doctor for sex. Nothing wrong with that. Its obvious that the Doctor is just going to use you so you use him first. When its right its right and you will know it. Just dont get attached keep looking. You sound like a nice girl Mr right is close I'm sure.
2007-02-02 11:41:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously me! I may not be a tough firefighter or very attractive.
But im genuinely nice to everyone.
2007-02-10 03:05:09 · answer #4 · answered by myvampiredrak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. There is someone out there for you, but neither of these men give you butterflies. Do not marry until you find the man that does.
2007-02-02 11:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then date both. That's what guys do. No law says you have to pick only one. Get what you need in your life to make you happy.
2007-02-02 11:41:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
neither..and go search for a new one
2007-02-10 11:08:16 · answer #7 · answered by Morgan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋